Argh! Why do I feel like I am getting the flu even though I had a flu shot. Why are my kidlets acting pre -flu like even though they got the shot? Palease flu do not come to my house. You are not invited. Stay the frank away! I mean it. I will tell on you!
Today is my last day at the office until the first of the year. Thank goodness! This is made possible by my trusty assistant Jet who will man this shack until I get back. Thanks Jet.
The kids and I have been trying to keep up with advent activities. Not doing so great of a job. But, something is better than nothing. We have had a great time during this preparation. We have also been talking a lot about babies since baby Jesus has made a debut in our home. My big boy said if we ever have another baby boy he would like to name him "Thunder or XRay" great choices considering that his girl name was "Salad or Sally" for short he said. I bet his name choices mature as he grows older:)
My husband and I have been discussing the thought of adding a 4th to our team. I love the question when you first tell others you are pregnant. "Oh did you PLAN this?" Really? Does it matter? If I say no, you don't automatically think that I am crazy for having another child. But if I say Yes, its full of "What?!, 4 really" You are on your way to being the Duggars. Frankly, this can be really negative. In the past, I have laughed it off and said "Well, I AM a good Catholic girl" everyone seems to think that's funny. But I don't like making a "mockery" of my faith I guess. In general, I try to make a point in saying my hubby and I are open to the blessings that God has for us.
Still feeling a bit of the ick. Hope to jump out of my office really soon. That sounds so funny. Dont worry, I have a main floor office :) One more meeting to slam through and I am off like a lamp.
I wish you all a Blessed Christmas and a safe New Year!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Adoration
Everyday, my kids and I discuss what we are thankful for. Everyday, I wake up so thrilled about the gifts God has given me. I AM IN AWE EVERYDAY. No joke, no lie. Really in sheer awe. I see my kids. I get goosebumps every morning. I take a deep breath to calm my self from the overwhelming sense that " this is big". Those kids, that gift .... WOW. When I have a less than stellar day, somehow, my gaze is shifted up. I see the rich blue sky. The leaves that have changed color. So rich and vibrant. Mushy Mushy. Bleh. I feel this don't you? I am thanking God all of the time for all of my blessings.
One quick note, often my hubby and I go to mass at different times. He and my daughter went on Saturday. My daughter came home and said" Mommy, there where 90 babies at church today" My hubby said " Yeah, and she told me that we didn't have to take one because she has been praying to Jesus to put a baby in mommy's tummy" That's a little weird that a 3 year old wants a baby so bad...cute too. I am sure she will be a great helper when our next child arrives...whenever that may be :)
Have a blessed and safe Thanksgiving. I may blog tomorrow I may not. Peace.
One quick note, often my hubby and I go to mass at different times. He and my daughter went on Saturday. My daughter came home and said" Mommy, there where 90 babies at church today" My hubby said " Yeah, and she told me that we didn't have to take one because she has been praying to Jesus to put a baby in mommy's tummy" That's a little weird that a 3 year old wants a baby so bad...cute too. I am sure she will be a great helper when our next child arrives...whenever that may be :)
Have a blessed and safe Thanksgiving. I may blog tomorrow I may not. Peace.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Not bed bugs, bed blogs.
Bed blogging. Do you do it? Do you talk to yourself in blog talk. As if you were writing your blog. Last night I couldn't sleep and ALL I did was bed blog. THE INSANITY! So I guess it is time to get back at it. November is shaping up to be a much better month than last. In fact, by most accounts, I might even go as far to say November has been a stellar month.
My husband and I chimed in our 7 year wedding anniversary. Very nice. His parents gave us money this year? Cant remember getting money for staying married. We have both concluded that they made a bet with someone about how long we would stay married. They must have won and gave us a portion of the earnings:) RIGHT ON!
My Big Boy is in Pre4 class at a Catholic School. I have not been too impressed with a few areas. First, the teacher is barely covering anything faith based. " God is great, God is good, Let's thank Him for our food" is not on my list of traditional Catholic prayers. Prayers can be anything, yes I know. But, I am sending him to a Catholic school, they should say traditional Catholic prayers. Also, the learning is under par. The teacher is not even planning to teach the whole alphabet. Long story short, spoke to the teacher, voiced my concerns.Not sure much was accomplished. Seriously thought about homeschooling. Yes, homeschooling.
I will put a disclaimer right here---if I can think of the right words to say to not make homeschooling mad---
Here's the deal. I probably would not have considered it if I didn't run into so many bloggy Catholic homeschooling families. When I was a kid, the few home schooled kids that I ran in to were a bit-off. Some were my cousins. As a parent, I want my kids to stay innocent. I want them to thrive in a faith filled environment. I am finding that maybe my expectations for Catholic school are too high. I take the responsibility of teaching my kids their faith. I don't put that on anyone else. But, I just thought more would be happening at a Catholic school. My hubby is not on board with the homeschoolin' and really its just a thought. I can see how easy it would be to switch.
To solidify my dorkiness, I went to a Diocesan Adult Enrichment conference this month. I thought it was awesome. The funny part was 99% of the attendees where Catholic teachers forced to attend. Not me, I went as a parent wanting to learn. I thought the info was great for parents. I got to see the bishop. So cool. I learned so many great tools to use with my kids. One, the "you are special plate" At first, I thought, yeah right like I am going to spend the money on that. But thesalesman speaker was very convincing. He and his family use it quite often for one special member of the family to eat off of. Then they write on the back the date and occasion. I know this would be so fun. A great way to make sure we take time to praise our kids.
Again, thanks for all that keep blogging and sharing. I am mos' def' reading if I am not writing! So excited about Advent.
My husband and I chimed in our 7 year wedding anniversary. Very nice. His parents gave us money this year? Cant remember getting money for staying married. We have both concluded that they made a bet with someone about how long we would stay married. They must have won and gave us a portion of the earnings:) RIGHT ON!
My Big Boy is in Pre4 class at a Catholic School. I have not been too impressed with a few areas. First, the teacher is barely covering anything faith based. " God is great, God is good, Let's thank Him for our food" is not on my list of traditional Catholic prayers. Prayers can be anything, yes I know. But, I am sending him to a Catholic school, they should say traditional Catholic prayers. Also, the learning is under par. The teacher is not even planning to teach the whole alphabet. Long story short, spoke to the teacher, voiced my concerns.Not sure much was accomplished. Seriously thought about homeschooling. Yes, homeschooling.
I will put a disclaimer right here---if I can think of the right words to say to not make homeschooling mad---
Here's the deal. I probably would not have considered it if I didn't run into so many bloggy Catholic homeschooling families. When I was a kid, the few home schooled kids that I ran in to were a bit-off. Some were my cousins. As a parent, I want my kids to stay innocent. I want them to thrive in a faith filled environment. I am finding that maybe my expectations for Catholic school are too high. I take the responsibility of teaching my kids their faith. I don't put that on anyone else. But, I just thought more would be happening at a Catholic school. My hubby is not on board with the homeschoolin' and really its just a thought. I can see how easy it would be to switch.
To solidify my dorkiness, I went to a Diocesan Adult Enrichment conference this month. I thought it was awesome. The funny part was 99% of the attendees where Catholic teachers forced to attend. Not me, I went as a parent wanting to learn. I thought the info was great for parents. I got to see the bishop. So cool. I learned so many great tools to use with my kids. One, the "you are special plate" At first, I thought, yeah right like I am going to spend the money on that. But the
Again, thanks for all that keep blogging and sharing. I am mos' def' reading if I am not writing! So excited about Advent.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Just get that light out of my eyes!! I'll talk...I'll talk!
Yes, I've been MIA for the past month. But, I have been busy with home and work, I just could not justify time spent blogging. The good news, I still read your blogs :) Lots of happy events with all of my bloggy friends. So happy cheer joy to you. Thanks for keeping your blog updated so I can take a break from my life for a beat.
We live in a cornfield in a new home. We get mice when it gets cold. Every year I think, oh, this year we wont get them. Absolutely gross. This morning we were blessed with our first mouse. This mouse could not sing his name in a catchy tune nor could he cook. He was just gross. I heard those squeaks this morning as I started to shriek myself. I knew we had a captive. My lovely heroic aunt who watches the kids for me during the day was brave enough to dispose of the truant. If left up to me, that stinker would have been left for the hubby to dispose of. So, now back to tiptoeing in my home and looking around corners. I just know I am due for a micey to run up my leg and scurry in my hair. Worry much? Bleh.
Speaking of little Rattioulle, my son was SO excited about his visit. He could not wait to tell everyone at Pre K. I am sure he will have LOTS of friends over now to the mouse house.
The white Catholic vote. I heard that term several times on the news last night. I was proud that Catholics seemed to rally against this mess that is happening. I cannot believe that our government wanted tax payers to pay for contraceptives and abortions. COME ON. MY MONEY!!!! Right. The whole idea is abhorrent to me. I do agree that there are varying degrees of the Catholic. Those who just identify as Catholic and those who practice Catholicism. Maybe it was just the fact that no one is happy with government. And frankly, most people are either Practicing or Pretend Catholics anyway. Maybe its always been a "Catholic Vote" Either way, I was proud that we made a difference in our vote. Now lets see the REAL change that we have all been waiting for.
We were all out eating a few days ago. At the table next to us was a couple and their baby. My daughter looked up at me and said "Take it!!" I said "What?!" Again she said "Take it" She wanted me to take their baby! The couple heard, I laughed it off. But, I guess they are ready for a baby brother or sister. I will also make sure to patt her down when she is near any baby...just a precaution.
So there you have it. Blogity blog silence shattered. peace.
We live in a cornfield in a new home. We get mice when it gets cold. Every year I think, oh, this year we wont get them. Absolutely gross. This morning we were blessed with our first mouse. This mouse could not sing his name in a catchy tune nor could he cook. He was just gross. I heard those squeaks this morning as I started to shriek myself. I knew we had a captive. My lovely heroic aunt who watches the kids for me during the day was brave enough to dispose of the truant. If left up to me, that stinker would have been left for the hubby to dispose of. So, now back to tiptoeing in my home and looking around corners. I just know I am due for a micey to run up my leg and scurry in my hair. Worry much? Bleh.
Speaking of little Rattioulle, my son was SO excited about his visit. He could not wait to tell everyone at Pre K. I am sure he will have LOTS of friends over now to the mouse house.
The white Catholic vote. I heard that term several times on the news last night. I was proud that Catholics seemed to rally against this mess that is happening. I cannot believe that our government wanted tax payers to pay for contraceptives and abortions. COME ON. MY MONEY!!!! Right. The whole idea is abhorrent to me. I do agree that there are varying degrees of the Catholic. Those who just identify as Catholic and those who practice Catholicism. Maybe it was just the fact that no one is happy with government. And frankly, most people are either Practicing or Pretend Catholics anyway. Maybe its always been a "Catholic Vote" Either way, I was proud that we made a difference in our vote. Now lets see the REAL change that we have all been waiting for.
We were all out eating a few days ago. At the table next to us was a couple and their baby. My daughter looked up at me and said "Take it!!" I said "What?!" Again she said "Take it" She wanted me to take their baby! The couple heard, I laughed it off. But, I guess they are ready for a baby brother or sister. I will also make sure to patt her down when she is near any baby...just a precaution.
So there you have it. Blogity blog silence shattered. peace.
Friday, October 8, 2010
I'm pressin on
In the long run, it doesn't matter. But I have had a cruddy week. In the back of my mind I have told myself to revisit the events later to see how they helped me grow...but while in the midst of this fun its a bit hard to see. I don't think it would help anyone if I listed all of the tree leaves that fell this week, so I wont. All of my kids remain healthy even though fall/winter is knocking on our door. I will keep that in mind.
Question.. facebook...do you use it? I don't ......and presume it will stay that way. One of my unfortunate events this week, backed in to a slightly loony bin persons PARKED car. Details aside, this person decided to rant about me on her Facebook page.Her rant spewed many untruths about me. One of my work associates brought this to my attention. Since I work in the same building as said ranter, I KINDLY, calmly asked her to stop publishing untruths about me with my name. She apologized and said she would remove it. Then the tears started flowing. I heard all about her bad month, I suppose. Any sliver of anger that I held vanished. However, I still kept in mind that more than likely she would not remove my name from her facebook and may even add more untruths to it.
Totally hate confrontation. But, I have the right to ask someone to not do something that makes me upset. I was worried about talking to the ranter in fear of making the situation worse. I haven't heard any more. But that isn't good. Before I spoke with the ranter I thought what is the best way to be a good Catholic and handle this? I ultimately decided, just because I am Catholic don't mean I allow myslef to be walked on or treated unfairly. What I mean by that is, often these confrontations can be heated or even turn hateful. How is that being Christan? I kept my cool , tried to see God in her eyes and its done.
My kids are indulging in 3 bowls of icing and tons of candy. They are making a Halloween candy house. I thought I would let them do the icing themselves this year. It is a messy mess. Upset stomachs to follow. My little boy has eaten most of his bowl of icing. Not much candy on the house :) My big boy is reminding the little ones that their tummies will be a hurtn' if they keep eating the way they do.
Tonight the boys have Taekowndo. Its my sisters 26th birthday today. I am a pickle mad at her because she has not returned my calls.... she its too busy with school. Understood, but she lives 3 hours away, she could be a story on Dateline and I wouldn't know it. Ugh, kids.
My kids want " Dance Star Mickey" ...Too bad we already have bouncy tigger, dancing broby, skate/singing ming ming, Elmo live, chiken dance elmo, and tickle me elmo. Sorry kids no more freaky talking bouncing things that you do not play with for more than 5 minutes total.
This morning my kids and I said a family rosary. They all had their rosaries that I bought from the Clay rosary girl. My 5 year old did great. The 3 year old twins, did get bored. But they sat,listened, played and said the prayers. Not as intently as my oldest though. It was a great way to start the day.
My hubby will be home from work soon. I have to get a movin to make the house look like I did something on my day off.
Have a blessed weekend!
Question.. facebook...do you use it? I don't ......and presume it will stay that way. One of my unfortunate events this week, backed in to a slightly loony bin persons PARKED car. Details aside, this person decided to rant about me on her Facebook page.Her rant spewed many untruths about me. One of my work associates brought this to my attention. Since I work in the same building as said ranter, I KINDLY, calmly asked her to stop publishing untruths about me with my name. She apologized and said she would remove it. Then the tears started flowing. I heard all about her bad month, I suppose. Any sliver of anger that I held vanished. However, I still kept in mind that more than likely she would not remove my name from her facebook and may even add more untruths to it.
Totally hate confrontation. But, I have the right to ask someone to not do something that makes me upset. I was worried about talking to the ranter in fear of making the situation worse. I haven't heard any more. But that isn't good. Before I spoke with the ranter I thought what is the best way to be a good Catholic and handle this? I ultimately decided, just because I am Catholic don't mean I allow myslef to be walked on or treated unfairly. What I mean by that is, often these confrontations can be heated or even turn hateful. How is that being Christan? I kept my cool , tried to see God in her eyes and its done.
My kids are indulging in 3 bowls of icing and tons of candy. They are making a Halloween candy house. I thought I would let them do the icing themselves this year. It is a messy mess. Upset stomachs to follow. My little boy has eaten most of his bowl of icing. Not much candy on the house :) My big boy is reminding the little ones that their tummies will be a hurtn' if they keep eating the way they do.
Tonight the boys have Taekowndo. Its my sisters 26th birthday today. I am a pickle mad at her because she has not returned my calls.... she its too busy with school. Understood, but she lives 3 hours away, she could be a story on Dateline and I wouldn't know it. Ugh, kids.
My kids want " Dance Star Mickey" ...Too bad we already have bouncy tigger, dancing broby, skate/singing ming ming, Elmo live, chiken dance elmo, and tickle me elmo. Sorry kids no more freaky talking bouncing things that you do not play with for more than 5 minutes total.
This morning my kids and I said a family rosary. They all had their rosaries that I bought from the Clay rosary girl. My 5 year old did great. The 3 year old twins, did get bored. But they sat,listened, played and said the prayers. Not as intently as my oldest though. It was a great way to start the day.
My hubby will be home from work soon. I have to get a movin to make the house look like I did something on my day off.
Have a blessed weekend!
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Teeter Totter
Its a boys club. In general, having a career as a mom is like trying to navigate in a all boys club. I get it, I can do anything. I love the fact that in my industry, very few women make it. But, I take to heart that I do get "beat" in the career game by others in my field...because I am Me mom and woman warrior. I carry the weight of my mom guilt. It makes it so hard to climb up that corporate ladder. Yes, we can do anything, but come on, what AREN'T we sacrificing? We are sacrificing our family. Plain and simple.
How do you do it? When you have the undying drive to GO... be the best...not be ordinary, be successful. If I hear a someone say "BALANCE" one more time I will go to the market. Because it is a myth.Just like jeans that make you skinny or fat free lava cake. You can't balance. Is it REALLY meant to be a balance? Are we really supposed to spend 50% of our time at work? Really? Really? ( Bonus points if you count all of the reallys')Our lives just aren't work and family.....or they shouldn't be. Right? Easier said than done.
Its like a boys club. I have a monthly meeting with others in my industry. The fellas gabbed about what fellas gab about (my hubby included) football, golf , bets... . They were all set for a nice lunch and golf after the meeting. Making sure to solidify golf and baseball game plans for the rest of the week. I don't have time for it. How guilt stricken would I feel if I took my afternoons to golf and not be with my kids instead? In and out. In my professional career I have NEVER heard any male co worker say " I hope that my career doesn't hurt the emotional balance of my children" I am not dogging men. Palease....not at all. What I am dogging is the mess that this all is. The deterioration of the family. The HEAVY guilt moms feel for just doing what is expected of them. For trying not to do too much or not to excel too much as to put their childrens emotional state in jeopardy.
Today on XM Catholic radio, I heard (Matthew 25:14-30). All about talent. God gave us ALL talent.Some more than others. To use and to multiply. I feel in my gut, that on most days, I really am making a difference in other peoples lives by continuing to work. Would I be squandering my talent away if I did not continue with my career? If I did nothing with the "gifts" God has given me. God has given me this career. Most of the time I am good at it. I consider it a talent. Its so hard. I long to be with my kids. I do want to help others. I AM LUCKY TO BE EMPLOYED. I plan to stay that way. I'm just saying, we have got to be real. Women can do. But how do we do it all?
How do you do it? When you have the undying drive to GO... be the best...not be ordinary, be successful. If I hear a someone say "BALANCE" one more time I will go to the market. Because it is a myth.Just like jeans that make you skinny or fat free lava cake. You can't balance. Is it REALLY meant to be a balance? Are we really supposed to spend 50% of our time at work? Really? Really? ( Bonus points if you count all of the reallys')Our lives just aren't work and family.....or they shouldn't be. Right? Easier said than done.
Its like a boys club. I have a monthly meeting with others in my industry. The fellas gabbed about what fellas gab about (my hubby included) football, golf , bets... . They were all set for a nice lunch and golf after the meeting. Making sure to solidify golf and baseball game plans for the rest of the week. I don't have time for it. How guilt stricken would I feel if I took my afternoons to golf and not be with my kids instead? In and out. In my professional career I have NEVER heard any male co worker say " I hope that my career doesn't hurt the emotional balance of my children" I am not dogging men. Palease....not at all. What I am dogging is the mess that this all is. The deterioration of the family. The HEAVY guilt moms feel for just doing what is expected of them. For trying not to do too much or not to excel too much as to put their childrens emotional state in jeopardy.
Today on XM Catholic radio, I heard (Matthew 25:14-30). All about talent. God gave us ALL talent.Some more than others. To use and to multiply. I feel in my gut, that on most days, I really am making a difference in other peoples lives by continuing to work. Would I be squandering my talent away if I did not continue with my career? If I did nothing with the "gifts" God has given me. God has given me this career. Most of the time I am good at it. I consider it a talent. Its so hard. I long to be with my kids. I do want to help others. I AM LUCKY TO BE EMPLOYED. I plan to stay that way. I'm just saying, we have got to be real. Women can do. But how do we do it all?
Monday, September 20, 2010
:)
My meeting with Sister R went great. Basically, she just sat and listened. I cannot wait until our next visit a month from now. I am so grateful that God has lead me this way. I am CERTAIN that this is what I need right now in my life. I am excited at the growth I will experience. How great it is. I am surprised at the number of others who have had spiritual direction in their life. I guess it is a no brainer. But, for me it, seemed sort of a radical holy roller move. Not at all. I am incredibly thrilled, happy, joyous that God has given me this grace.
Moving on, one reason I hesitated about being a blogity blog queen... sad sad blogs. I always worried that it was some sort of a curse to blog. Bad events would happen. But then I have come to realize, we just are now more aware of others crosses that they carry. They aren't statistically happening more. We just know about them because the bloggy world allows others to open up about events that happen in their lives. Even more so than in the "real world" So much easier being semi -anonymous than Mrs. Just Me who always talks Catholic at the gym. Instead, I talk Catholic online and live a Catholic life. So, for the most part, I am at ease with the curse I continue to blog away. Without starting blogging, I wouldn't have found such incredible faith examples to touch base with daily. Thanks!
September almost over? The kids and I will be putting up Halloween Decorations this weekend .My big boy has decided to be Batman, little boy will be Spider man, and my princess will be Cinderella. Very secular but very easy on the pocket book and creativity for mom. Fall / Winter really is our favorite time of the year. So many family get togethers. Thanksgiving and Christmas OH MY! Seriously, will wait... but I cant wait! What do you like about this time of year? The crisp weather, beautiful trees, cozy sweaters(fat clothes), family time... OR NEW TV SITCOMS? Ugh, I am getting sucked in slowly.
My husband spent about 13 hours in front of the TV Sunday watching all football known to man. I made cookies with the kids, cleaned, played, knit... It was kinda nice. He doesn't care about the messes we are making. He was with his first love. I cant remember the last time I got to do that...hum.
ALERT (font color change, its ground breaking)
You heard it here first.. I believe that Webster's dictionary will put :) into its book.
Definition- :)
Moving on, one reason I hesitated about being a blogity blog queen... sad sad blogs. I always worried that it was some sort of a curse to blog. Bad events would happen. But then I have come to realize, we just are now more aware of others crosses that they carry. They aren't statistically happening more. We just know about them because the bloggy world allows others to open up about events that happen in their lives. Even more so than in the "real world" So much easier being semi -anonymous than Mrs. Just Me who always talks Catholic at the gym. Instead, I talk Catholic online and live a Catholic life. So, for the most part, I am at ease with the curse I continue to blog away. Without starting blogging, I wouldn't have found such incredible faith examples to touch base with daily. Thanks!
September almost over? The kids and I will be putting up Halloween Decorations this weekend .My big boy has decided to be Batman, little boy will be Spider man, and my princess will be Cinderella. Very secular but very easy on the pocket book and creativity for mom. Fall / Winter really is our favorite time of the year. So many family get togethers. Thanksgiving and Christmas OH MY! Seriously, will wait... but I cant wait! What do you like about this time of year? The crisp weather, beautiful trees, cozy sweaters(fat clothes), family time... OR NEW TV SITCOMS? Ugh, I am getting sucked in slowly.
My husband spent about 13 hours in front of the TV Sunday watching all football known to man. I made cookies with the kids, cleaned, played, knit... It was kinda nice. He doesn't care about the messes we are making. He was with his first love. I cant remember the last time I got to do that...hum.
ALERT (font color change, its ground breaking)
You heard it here first.. I believe that Webster's dictionary will put :) into its book.
Definition- :)
- Emotionally speaking to be happy. ie: I am so happy :)
- Please take this as being not so mean even though it sounds like it. ie: Could you do this today without messing it up :)
- I am not crazy ie: My dog has fleas, my sister is living with me, and I lost my keys this morning , Great day :)
- In jest ie: If you can think of any others...just let me know... I am sure this is a very persuading case to add to the book :)
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Blank
Tomorrow is a big day. Call it my next step. I will be visiting a spiritual advisor. She is a nun whose primary job is to help others with their spiritual direction. I have had challenges in the past and thought, maybe I would benefit from going to a counselor of some sort. If Bethany Frankel does, why don't I? But, I kept coming back to.... All I need is a better relationship with God. My problems would be easier ( I guess) if I had this solid foundation. So in a sense, I guess this thought is what led me to where I am today. Building.
Some of you may be OMG, spiritual advisor really? Heck yes. Its ok to want to have a deep relationship with God. Our secular world makes fun of those who truly seek that relationship. BTW, when I started blogging, I suppose that I did not intend to dive so deeply into my faith. Out loud. For that matter, i didn't intend to talk about it so much. What I have come to realize is that I have needed a place to talk about it. That's it. In real life, and even in bloggy land, religion makes people uncomfortable. It shouldn't. At all. If you are uncomfortable, do something about it. If you are knowing, living, being, learning, growing in and of God, what is there to be uncomfortable about? So you can be a playa hata all you want, but I'm gonna. That's right I'm gonna.
I will have to drive at least 40 minutes away to meet my nun.....that makes her an expert right?
Thank you to those who blog about their truth. Your blogs have helped in my growth. Allowed me to feel comfortable in whom I am becoming.
Some of you may be OMG, spiritual advisor really? Heck yes. Its ok to want to have a deep relationship with God. Our secular world makes fun of those who truly seek that relationship. BTW, when I started blogging, I suppose that I did not intend to dive so deeply into my faith. Out loud. For that matter, i didn't intend to talk about it so much. What I have come to realize is that I have needed a place to talk about it. That's it. In real life, and even in bloggy land, religion makes people uncomfortable. It shouldn't. At all. If you are uncomfortable, do something about it. If you are knowing, living, being, learning, growing in and of God, what is there to be uncomfortable about? So you can be a playa hata all you want, but I'm gonna. That's right I'm gonna.
I will have to drive at least 40 minutes away to meet my nun.....that makes her an expert right?
Thank you to those who blog about their truth. Your blogs have helped in my growth. Allowed me to feel comfortable in whom I am becoming.
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Step by Step--OH Baby! NKOTB!
Isn't half of the challenge of life just taking the first step. If you spend all of your life anticipating, waiting for the right time to be who you are supposed to be, doesn't your life pass you by? In my mind, I feel that someday I could be a great person. One who has time for everyone. One who helps those in need. This has always been a someday thing. I want to make big changes commit my entire being. But, with a full time job and children, I feel my family has been the first place to start and perfect.
However, today at mass, some random stranger called me by my first name. I turned around and asked if he was a cop :) ( just kidding). Anyhoo, he had known me due to my business. He was asking for help getting a new family homeless shelter off the ground. I have always felt strong compassion for those who do not have homes. I have always wanted to help. But I just didn't feel like it was my time.Ugh... Saying that reminds me of Jesus when Mary told him at the Wedding at Canna to make water in to wine.... "its not my time woman". I think you get my drift though.... But really, to be actually called by name by a stranger, after mass, seemed like I couldn't be hit over the head with a larger mallet to get my attention. So, because that gentleman took the first step. I will too. I have already made a few calls to financially secure individuals who can more than likely help with funding. I plan to commit time and as much money as I can.
Although, this might seem small to others, I feel that this is the work of the holy spirit. Nudging us to do for others. To be better people. I truly deep down believe that even the smallest actions can be inspired in part by the holy spirit. Ultimately by God. No doubt.
My son's actions this morning fell short of being inspired. That goose. He wanted to go to school, but he didn't want to get dress, eat, brush his hair etc. I laid out clothes for the little little to put on. Mad because he didn't like it. I gave him a break and gave him another choice. He came into my room "changed" wearing his spider man pj top and the shorts he wore yesterday to school. He has been refusing to eat breakfast. Don't bad mom's send their kids to school without eats? I was not going to send him, maybe he was getting sick. OR MAYBE HE WAS ACTING LIKE A 5 YEAR OLD! Yes, that was it. No the best way to start the day. But, we are over it now. Hopefully a better week next week.
Happy Birthday to one Great Mother. Happy Birthday Mother Mary! Bet Jesus never acted that way :)
However, today at mass, some random stranger called me by my first name. I turned around and asked if he was a cop :) ( just kidding). Anyhoo, he had known me due to my business. He was asking for help getting a new family homeless shelter off the ground. I have always felt strong compassion for those who do not have homes. I have always wanted to help. But I just didn't feel like it was my time.Ugh... Saying that reminds me of Jesus when Mary told him at the Wedding at Canna to make water in to wine.... "its not my time woman". I think you get my drift though.... But really, to be actually called by name by a stranger, after mass, seemed like I couldn't be hit over the head with a larger mallet to get my attention. So, because that gentleman took the first step. I will too. I have already made a few calls to financially secure individuals who can more than likely help with funding. I plan to commit time and as much money as I can.
Although, this might seem small to others, I feel that this is the work of the holy spirit. Nudging us to do for others. To be better people. I truly deep down believe that even the smallest actions can be inspired in part by the holy spirit. Ultimately by God. No doubt.
My son's actions this morning fell short of being inspired. That goose. He wanted to go to school, but he didn't want to get dress, eat, brush his hair etc. I laid out clothes for the little little to put on. Mad because he didn't like it. I gave him a break and gave him another choice. He came into my room "changed" wearing his spider man pj top and the shorts he wore yesterday to school. He has been refusing to eat breakfast. Don't bad mom's send their kids to school without eats? I was not going to send him, maybe he was getting sick. OR MAYBE HE WAS ACTING LIKE A 5 YEAR OLD! Yes, that was it. No the best way to start the day. But, we are over it now. Hopefully a better week next week.
Happy Birthday to one Great Mother. Happy Birthday Mother Mary! Bet Jesus never acted that way :)
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Short
As my hubby and I were laying in bed last night chatting about our big boy. Today was his first day of Pre-4. My lovely husband said " Well, we only have him 14 more years" Meaning he will be off to college soon. So true though. This past 5 years has gone by so swiftly. We have been so blessed with our children, home and our lives together. He said he will start sleeping with one eye open... I'm ready for number 4!
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Daisy Dukes
All I can say... we grow in faith in different ways. God is really stretching me! I don't really want to dive into the details. Nothing major... I just feel like I am back at square one on a few "life items" in progress.
I am desperately looking forward to this weekend. I cant wait to spend some time with the kidlets doing the stuff they love. We just don't do enough during the week. More like get home, make dinner, eat, baths, books. bed. I know what the biggest time sucker outer in our life is.... TV. I hate it. HATE. My husband refuses to turn it off. My sitter must have it on all day. Any chance I get, I turn that bad boy off. I just don't like it. the end on that mini mini rant.
I am trying to save some bucks after the recent purchase of my Mercedes :) Slowly, we will be adjusting to one income. By choice. So many don't have the choice. But, we have decided to save my husbands income and live off of mine. Our choices of saving ..........investing, 529 plans,emergency funds and whole life insurance. As I type, we are basically saving at least one paycheck already. So it shouldn't be too bad on the other.
Instead of being fearful of job loss. Live it. Self induced.As with everything...God walks with us.
HAVE A VERY SAFE HOLIDAY WEEKEND!
I am desperately looking forward to this weekend. I cant wait to spend some time with the kidlets doing the stuff they love. We just don't do enough during the week. More like get home, make dinner, eat, baths, books. bed. I know what the biggest time sucker outer in our life is.... TV. I hate it. HATE. My husband refuses to turn it off. My sitter must have it on all day. Any chance I get, I turn that bad boy off. I just don't like it. the end on that mini mini rant.
I am trying to save some bucks after the recent purchase of my Mercedes :) Slowly, we will be adjusting to one income. By choice. So many don't have the choice. But, we have decided to save my husbands income and live off of mine. Our choices of saving ..........investing, 529 plans,emergency funds and whole life insurance. As I type, we are basically saving at least one paycheck already. So it shouldn't be too bad on the other.
Instead of being fearful of job loss. Live it. Self induced.As with everything...God walks with us.
HAVE A VERY SAFE HOLIDAY WEEKEND!
Monday, August 30, 2010
Flexin' the Big Guns!
God is in this too.....
Sunday nights are usually filled with anxiety for me. Stressed about going back to work and leaving the kids. Just plain thinking about all of the stuff that surrounds the week can sometimes be daunting. So as a ritual of sorts, I don't sleep much around the first of the week.
I am a planner to a fault. Changes don't come easy. So when my aunt comes to my house this morning to watch the kids and wants me to bring the kids to her house instead. I get more nervous, just more stuff to do. Wake them, dress them, pack toys.... UGH. I knew my assistant would be gone in the morning and a Dr's appointment for the kids in the noon of after. Already, a busy day, so adding to the stress of what had to be done.
As I finally made it to work, my poor trusty assistant is writhing in pain due to an unknown condition at this time. She's off to the Dr and probably out of the office for a while. Rescheduled the Dr's appt for the kids.
I know that all of these are little things. But, I get a bit off kilter. I rescheduled the other appointments I had this week to anticipate my assistants absence. As I rescheduled one, the person on the other end of the phone said.... " Ya know, God's just saying he's in this too"
I need to lighten up a lot. Open my heart and mind to what God wants me to do. God bless the woman on the other end of the phone today.
Sunday nights are usually filled with anxiety for me. Stressed about going back to work and leaving the kids. Just plain thinking about all of the stuff that surrounds the week can sometimes be daunting. So as a ritual of sorts, I don't sleep much around the first of the week.
I am a planner to a fault. Changes don't come easy. So when my aunt comes to my house this morning to watch the kids and wants me to bring the kids to her house instead. I get more nervous, just more stuff to do. Wake them, dress them, pack toys.... UGH. I knew my assistant would be gone in the morning and a Dr's appointment for the kids in the noon of after. Already, a busy day, so adding to the stress of what had to be done.
As I finally made it to work, my poor trusty assistant is writhing in pain due to an unknown condition at this time. She's off to the Dr and probably out of the office for a while. Rescheduled the Dr's appt for the kids.
I know that all of these are little things. But, I get a bit off kilter. I rescheduled the other appointments I had this week to anticipate my assistants absence. As I rescheduled one, the person on the other end of the phone said.... " Ya know, God's just saying he's in this too"
Peace just overwhelmed me. Yes, she is right. VERY RIGHT. Here I am AGAIN trying to make MY plans.
God has other plans for me.
I need to lighten up a lot. Open my heart and mind to what God wants me to do. God bless the woman on the other end of the phone today.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Look eye!, always look eye!
My kids love intimating the movie " Karate Kid" They love to do "the moves" probably as much as my hubby. After hem and some hawing, we took the boys to try a taekwondo class. I was completely impressed by the control that the "master" had over the kids. I was amazed by my boys. My little one, did not cry for me. In fact, he had his karate face on and was ready to rock. Walked right in the room with his big brother and went for it. Parents sat out side the room and could watch. I think this helped my little one feel ok. He kept mouthing" do you have fruit snacks" He must have been hungry during the kicks and crab walks. The discipline was great. However, at some points a bit too much. The "master" picked up one kid by his belt and carried him like a suit case to move him to the other side of the room. I am not sure I would appreciate that being done to MY perfect angels. Do you think that is excessive? I am still on the fence about making this commitment for our boys. They had fun. They stuck it out the whole hour. We will be there the entire time with them to watch.
My baby girl will start her dance classes this Monday. She is very excited and is thrilled about wearing her little tutu. My hubby and I thought it would be good to get them in some sort of activity during the winter at least. Although, we are all very sick through out the winter months. Both of the boys are without tonsils, we have started the kids on Vitamin D supplement's, and we will all be getting flu shots. We haven't gotten them in the past, but I think its needed. Nothing is worse than having the flu, and trying to catch your kids "stomach contents" while you are rushing back from depositing your own. The memory is still so vivid. OUCH! Odd. My hubby slept through the mayhem of that night AND never got sick! Do you and your family get flu shots?
Found the best Baked Coconut Chicken recipe. So easy so yummy. MY KIDS LOVE IT. They are so hard to please. Sub with organic ingredients. Tum Yum. Also, Queen B, I saw your post about baked oatmeal. Looks yummy. I like to put steel cut oatmeal in the crock pot overnight on low. You can cook with water or apple juice. Dont forget the non-stick spray! So great and good for you. Another kid fav!
God Bless you today~
My baby girl will start her dance classes this Monday. She is very excited and is thrilled about wearing her little tutu. My hubby and I thought it would be good to get them in some sort of activity during the winter at least. Although, we are all very sick through out the winter months. Both of the boys are without tonsils, we have started the kids on Vitamin D supplement's, and we will all be getting flu shots. We haven't gotten them in the past, but I think its needed. Nothing is worse than having the flu, and trying to catch your kids "stomach contents" while you are rushing back from depositing your own. The memory is still so vivid. OUCH! Odd. My hubby slept through the mayhem of that night AND never got sick! Do you and your family get flu shots?
Found the best Baked Coconut Chicken recipe. So easy so yummy. MY KIDS LOVE IT. They are so hard to please. Sub with organic ingredients. Tum Yum. Also, Queen B, I saw your post about baked oatmeal. Looks yummy. I like to put steel cut oatmeal in the crock pot overnight on low. You can cook with water or apple juice. Dont forget the non-stick spray! So great and good for you. Another kid fav!
God Bless you today~
Monday, August 23, 2010
How much do I love thee...let me count the ways
I didn't know what I was missing until I saw you. You are everything I ever wanted.So warm and inviting. You just do everything for me. You open the doors for me, so I wont get tired. You love my children so much, you even make sure they are entertained with a DVD. You welcome any friends over with" Hey, I've got an extra seat here!" You play any music I want. You even found the Catholic Radio station for me. And, boy can you move! Like butta.
Ah yes my friends, I am the proud new owner/convert of a Toyota Sienna. I have not enjoyed a vehicle since my 98 Pontiac Firebird 6 speed in college( those were the days). But now my excitement lies in the Sienna. The kids love it, the hubby loves it, I adore it. Blue tooth baby. I am so cool now. Worth every stinkn penny. I am certain it drives better than any Bmw or Mercedes. In fact, I am renaming it "Mom's Mercedes". Although, I strongly dislike the process of haggling, it all worked out. I feel like we got a great deal. Very happy. Thank you God for the opportunity to have this for my family.
Lately, I've been feeling like I am always yelling at my kidlets. They all have tons of energy and always want what the other has. The are smart enough to know what will make the other mad or upset. Half of the time, I do not see the crimes committed, but I can hear the aftermath. Trying to decided whom to punish is so hard. As I have struggled with this, so many tidbits have come my way. Mass this Sunday was all about discipline ( the actual mass that I heard, we sit in the cry room so, we can only catch bits) Did you ever notice that Disciples comes from the word discipline. I never noticed it before. How dense. For the most part, discipline is the art of making someone a better them. The example I heard on Catholic Radio was about a boy who is a concert pianist. He was disciplined enough to practice 8 hours a day to be the best. As parents, our ultimate job is to raise our children to be saints. Literally. You cannot do that without guiding children to be better. I need to stop looking at discipline as a mean action toward my children. Instead, more as a means to help them be the best they can be at life. We all need to have more control over ourselves and our actions. Again, discipline. Although I feel like I am always "guiding" my children, they need it. They don't have a clue. They need help with the rules of life. That is why I have become so in love with my faith. I want to be the best teacher for my children. But who is to guide me on that journey? The big G-O-D.
BTW, the organic movement is full swing in my house hold. Coming soon ....much better feed for the kids. Most def will include a weekly meal plan. I have found the greatest organic fruit snacks. They are made by Annie's and they are little bunny shaped. Very yummy. Target carries them and they are on sale right now.
Love it.
How you have a great evening. We will be taking the boys to try karate class. Need to work on spending some of that energy and building self discipline. I hope they enjoy it. God Bless!
Ah yes my friends, I am the proud new owner/convert of a Toyota Sienna. I have not enjoyed a vehicle since my 98 Pontiac Firebird 6 speed in college( those were the days). But now my excitement lies in the Sienna. The kids love it, the hubby loves it, I adore it. Blue tooth baby. I am so cool now. Worth every stinkn penny. I am certain it drives better than any Bmw or Mercedes. In fact, I am renaming it "Mom's Mercedes". Although, I strongly dislike the process of haggling, it all worked out. I feel like we got a great deal. Very happy. Thank you God for the opportunity to have this for my family.
Lately, I've been feeling like I am always yelling at my kidlets. They all have tons of energy and always want what the other has. The are smart enough to know what will make the other mad or upset. Half of the time, I do not see the crimes committed, but I can hear the aftermath. Trying to decided whom to punish is so hard. As I have struggled with this, so many tidbits have come my way. Mass this Sunday was all about discipline ( the actual mass that I heard, we sit in the cry room so, we can only catch bits) Did you ever notice that Disciples comes from the word discipline. I never noticed it before. How dense. For the most part, discipline is the art of making someone a better them. The example I heard on Catholic Radio was about a boy who is a concert pianist. He was disciplined enough to practice 8 hours a day to be the best. As parents, our ultimate job is to raise our children to be saints. Literally. You cannot do that without guiding children to be better. I need to stop looking at discipline as a mean action toward my children. Instead, more as a means to help them be the best they can be at life. We all need to have more control over ourselves and our actions. Again, discipline. Although I feel like I am always "guiding" my children, they need it. They don't have a clue. They need help with the rules of life. That is why I have become so in love with my faith. I want to be the best teacher for my children. But who is to guide me on that journey? The big G-O-D.
BTW, the organic movement is full swing in my house hold. Coming soon ....much better feed for the kids. Most def will include a weekly meal plan. I have found the greatest organic fruit snacks. They are made by Annie's and they are little bunny shaped. Very yummy. Target carries them and they are on sale right now.
Love it.
How you have a great evening. We will be taking the boys to try karate class. Need to work on spending some of that energy and building self discipline. I hope they enjoy it. God Bless!
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Horse and Buggy
Lots of fun stuff happening in my neck of the woods. My big boy turned 5!!! He enjoyed every minute of it. I had planned to make him a cake. But, since it was his super cool 5th I decided to by him some really rockin' cakes. He wanted of course a Hippo and Rhino party. So easy to find decorations to follow that theme. I integrated Batman a bit too. All in all, he had a great time. I can believe he is so big. Sniff, Sniff. He will be going to kindergarten next year. That will be rough on mom fo sho.
My hubby and I sold our Honda Odyssey van. One of my clients offered us a cant refuse price for it. So we sold it. Like I told the hubby, if someone offers you great money for some item that you have, you sell. We can always buy another van right? I strongly dislike buying cars. I knew this b4 I sold the van. You would think that the car lots are just swimming with clients and don't need to sell anything. I am having a heck of a time even getting sales dud's to give me a simple call back. It's so hard to drag the kidlets out to look at cars. Not to mention how boring it is for them. So, we have tried to do most of it by phone. Not working all too well.
At first we were going to buy another Odyssey, but frankly it wasn't much different than my previous van. So , we are looking at the overpriced death trap Toyota Sienna. All of our kids need car seats, I feel like our choices are limited. Good news is, 99 years from now, not gonna matter what van/car we ended up buying.
If you have any tips on buying a car. Let me know. I feel like we are just pulling teeth to get help. You think it would be easier with no trade in and no financing. I guess they cant hide as much when you just pay out right for a car.
God Bless you today!
My hubby and I sold our Honda Odyssey van. One of my clients offered us a cant refuse price for it. So we sold it. Like I told the hubby, if someone offers you great money for some item that you have, you sell. We can always buy another van right? I strongly dislike buying cars. I knew this b4 I sold the van. You would think that the car lots are just swimming with clients and don't need to sell anything. I am having a heck of a time even getting sales dud's to give me a simple call back. It's so hard to drag the kidlets out to look at cars. Not to mention how boring it is for them. So, we have tried to do most of it by phone. Not working all too well.
At first we were going to buy another Odyssey, but frankly it wasn't much different than my previous van. So , we are looking at the overpriced death trap Toyota Sienna. All of our kids need car seats, I feel like our choices are limited. Good news is, 99 years from now, not gonna matter what van/car we ended up buying.
If you have any tips on buying a car. Let me know. I feel like we are just pulling teeth to get help. You think it would be easier with no trade in and no financing. I guess they cant hide as much when you just pay out right for a car.
God Bless you today!
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
My fav's
Thanks again to Queen B at http://happilyeverjohnson.blogspot.com/ for including me in her meme post.
THE RULES-"Name your three most favorite Catholic devotional prayers, and explain why they're your favorites. Then tag five bloggers - give them a link, and then go and tell them they have been tagged. Finally, tell the person who tagged you that you've completed the meme. The Liturgy and the Sacraments are off limits here. I'm more interested in people's favorite devotional prayers."
The Chaplet of the Divine Mercy. I have spoke about it in the past. Its such a beautiful prayer and I truly credit this devotion for helping my big boy.
The Rosary- So powerful. Described as giving a bouquet of roses to our blessed mother Mary. My children have started to learn it. My husband, who converted to Catholicism 7 years ago, just learned the Rosary too. We have just started to pray it together every evening.
I found the following information on http://foryourmarriage.org/
As you probably know, 46-48% of marriages end in divorce.
But did you also know that:
For couples who worship together each Sunday only about 20% divorce. For couples who also regularly pray together at home marital stability is even greater.
My parents have been divorced, remarried, divorced.So this gives me a sort of peace by praying the Rosary with my hubby. The sweetest part was my Big Boy picked up his Rosary and said it with us too.
I love going to Adoration. I try to go once a week. Here is a great prayer to begin that time with Jesus.
While Visiting The Most Blessed Sacrament
by St. Alphonsus Liguori
My Lord Jesus Christ, for the love which You bear to men, You remain night and day in this Sacrament full of compassion and of love, awaiting, calling, and welcoming all who come to visit You. I believe that You are present in the Sacrament of the Altar: I adore You from the abyss of my nothingness, and I thank You for all the graces which You have bestowed upon me and in particular for having given me Yourself in this Sacrament, for having given me your holy Mother Mary for my advocate, and for having called me to visit You in this chapel. I now salute
Your most loving Heart: and this for three ends:
1. In thanksgiving for this great gift;
2. To make amends to You for all the outrages which You receive in this Sacrament from all Your enemies;
3. I intend by this visit to adore You in all the places on earth in which You are the least revered and the most abandoned.
My Jesus, I love You with all my heart. I grieve for having so many times offended Your infinite goodness. I promise with Your grace never more to offend You in the future.
Now, miserable and unworthy though I be, I consecrate myself to You without reserve;
I give You my entire will, my affections, my desires, and all that I possess. From now on dispose of me and of all that I have as You please. All that I ask of You and desire is Your holy love, final perseverance, and the perfect accomplishment of Your will. I recommend to You the souls in purgatory; but especially those who had the greatest devotion to the most Blessed Sacrament and to the Blessed Virgin Mary. I also recommend to You all poor sinners.
My dear Saviour, I unite all my affections with the affections of Your most loving Heart; and I offer them, thus united, to Your eternal Father, and beseech Him in Your name to vouchsafe, for Your love, to accept them.
Amen.
To finish out the meme, I will tag others to share their thoughts--
Lerin at http://mycatholicfamily.blogspot.com/. She is very open about her life challenges. Its hard to tell the truth. But she does a great job!
Sarah at http://theclayrosarygirl.blogspot.com/. Talented artist fo sho.
THE RULES-"Name your three most favorite Catholic devotional prayers, and explain why they're your favorites. Then tag five bloggers - give them a link, and then go and tell them they have been tagged. Finally, tell the person who tagged you that you've completed the meme. The Liturgy and the Sacraments are off limits here. I'm more interested in people's favorite devotional prayers."
My favorite Catholic Devotionals-
The Chaplet of the Divine Mercy. I have spoke about it in the past. Its such a beautiful prayer and I truly credit this devotion for helping my big boy.
The Rosary- So powerful. Described as giving a bouquet of roses to our blessed mother Mary. My children have started to learn it. My husband, who converted to Catholicism 7 years ago, just learned the Rosary too. We have just started to pray it together every evening.
I found the following information on http://foryourmarriage.org/
As you probably know, 46-48% of marriages end in divorce.
But did you also know that:
For couples who worship together each Sunday only about 20% divorce. For couples who also regularly pray together at home marital stability is even greater.
My parents have been divorced, remarried, divorced.So this gives me a sort of peace by praying the Rosary with my hubby. The sweetest part was my Big Boy picked up his Rosary and said it with us too.
I love going to Adoration. I try to go once a week. Here is a great prayer to begin that time with Jesus.
While Visiting The Most Blessed Sacrament
by St. Alphonsus Liguori
My Lord Jesus Christ, for the love which You bear to men, You remain night and day in this Sacrament full of compassion and of love, awaiting, calling, and welcoming all who come to visit You. I believe that You are present in the Sacrament of the Altar: I adore You from the abyss of my nothingness, and I thank You for all the graces which You have bestowed upon me and in particular for having given me Yourself in this Sacrament, for having given me your holy Mother Mary for my advocate, and for having called me to visit You in this chapel. I now salute
Your most loving Heart: and this for three ends:
1. In thanksgiving for this great gift;
2. To make amends to You for all the outrages which You receive in this Sacrament from all Your enemies;
3. I intend by this visit to adore You in all the places on earth in which You are the least revered and the most abandoned.
My Jesus, I love You with all my heart. I grieve for having so many times offended Your infinite goodness. I promise with Your grace never more to offend You in the future.
Now, miserable and unworthy though I be, I consecrate myself to You without reserve;
I give You my entire will, my affections, my desires, and all that I possess. From now on dispose of me and of all that I have as You please. All that I ask of You and desire is Your holy love, final perseverance, and the perfect accomplishment of Your will. I recommend to You the souls in purgatory; but especially those who had the greatest devotion to the most Blessed Sacrament and to the Blessed Virgin Mary. I also recommend to You all poor sinners.
My dear Saviour, I unite all my affections with the affections of Your most loving Heart; and I offer them, thus united, to Your eternal Father, and beseech Him in Your name to vouchsafe, for Your love, to accept them.
Amen.
To finish out the meme, I will tag others to share their thoughts--
Lerin at http://mycatholicfamily.blogspot.com/. She is very open about her life challenges. Its hard to tell the truth. But she does a great job!
Sarah at http://theclayrosarygirl.blogspot.com/. Talented artist fo sho.
Monday, August 9, 2010
Hum.
I am so honored that Queen B gave me a shout in her blog at http://happilyeverjohnson.blogspot.com/. I will make sure I complete the meme soon. Also, I received my order from Clay Rosary Girl at http://theclayrosarygirl.blogspot.com/. Worth every penny. Everything is so delightful.
I want everyone to know I am not perfect. Nor do I think that I am. If you tell others what you believe as a Catholic, does it give off the impression that you are better than them? A holier than thou thought? I know that if anyone, even today, were to tell me I need to be closer to God, I am certain I would become defensive. However, its true. I grow in my faith everyday.Through life's struggles I have made choices that took me away from God and closer to God. The choice has always been up to me. I look back on times in my life and I wonder what would have happened if I had someone to guide me. Someone to tell me something maybe I didn't want to hear, but needed to hear. I am in such a better place than the year before and the year before that. I have grown remarkably in my faith. Everyday I will continue to grow. This growth is credit to everyday life challenges. The challenges that we ALL go through. Some talk about it, others don't. But trust, we all have 'em.
I wonder what different choices I would have made if I had a strongER faith example growing up. My parents were Catholic and went to church every week. But, just because you attend mass doesn't mean much. Its a step, but you have to live it. That's the hard part. I think about my bloggy bud Queen B. She is on her way to becoming an ObGYN. She is strong in her faith.
***MEMORIES****My first visit with an OBGYN was when I was about 16. My mom didn't attend but she knew I was going for craZY period crampage. TMI. Anyhoo, at 16 I was then promptly put on birth control. It alleviated the situation, but at 16, I was not at an age to understand what path that could possibly lead to. I see nothing wrong with making a point to show your faith in your work and to advise accordingly. I do know that there is fine line. But, I would love to have had a doctor who could have supported my health and faith.
In the OBGYN world the doctors work hand in hand with God. Bringing life into the world. They also have the ability to prevent that life from flourishing as well. For example, last year, a family member found out that he and his wife were expecting a baby. After much testing, they discovered that the baby had a rare deformity. When born, she would be in a vegetative state for her life. I was disappointed in my Catholic family. Disappointed because they did not want to step on anyone's toes or cause hurt feelings, so they mostly kept their feelings quiet. My family member decided to induce her labor at 6 months. They decided not to do anything to help their daughter live after she was born. Thus, after a few hours their daughter died. I have struggled with their situation. I have struggled with the doctors whom advised them. I have struggled with my family's choice to stay quiet. What did I do? What did I say? I spoke to the "higher ups" in my family. I expressed my sadness and wondered why we weren't stopping them. But, ultimately it was the couples' choice. I kept quiet.
So folks, when do you step in? Is it possible to tell those you love your feelings? If I was given guidance at an earlier age I am sure I could have made better choices growing up. If someone would have spoken up. Ultimately, I made choices. Now, I feel that God is walking with me in the choices that I make.
When I speak about my faith or tell others about it, I am not coming from a "I am better than you or I know better" More like, this is what God has done for me and what I(and God) have done to GROW here.I want everyone to have what I have.Especially those I love. I am stumped. God's uses us all to help each other. If we ignore what God is asking us to do, how are we living in HIM? And Scene.
I want everyone to know I am not perfect. Nor do I think that I am. If you tell others what you believe as a Catholic, does it give off the impression that you are better than them? A holier than thou thought? I know that if anyone, even today, were to tell me I need to be closer to God, I am certain I would become defensive. However, its true. I grow in my faith everyday.Through life's struggles I have made choices that took me away from God and closer to God. The choice has always been up to me. I look back on times in my life and I wonder what would have happened if I had someone to guide me. Someone to tell me something maybe I didn't want to hear, but needed to hear. I am in such a better place than the year before and the year before that. I have grown remarkably in my faith. Everyday I will continue to grow. This growth is credit to everyday life challenges. The challenges that we ALL go through. Some talk about it, others don't. But trust, we all have 'em.
I wonder what different choices I would have made if I had a strongER faith example growing up. My parents were Catholic and went to church every week. But, just because you attend mass doesn't mean much. Its a step, but you have to live it. That's the hard part. I think about my bloggy bud Queen B. She is on her way to becoming an ObGYN. She is strong in her faith.
***MEMORIES****My first visit with an OBGYN was when I was about 16. My mom didn't attend but she knew I was going for craZY period crampage. TMI. Anyhoo, at 16 I was then promptly put on birth control. It alleviated the situation, but at 16, I was not at an age to understand what path that could possibly lead to. I see nothing wrong with making a point to show your faith in your work and to advise accordingly. I do know that there is fine line. But, I would love to have had a doctor who could have supported my health and faith.
In the OBGYN world the doctors work hand in hand with God. Bringing life into the world. They also have the ability to prevent that life from flourishing as well. For example, last year, a family member found out that he and his wife were expecting a baby. After much testing, they discovered that the baby had a rare deformity. When born, she would be in a vegetative state for her life. I was disappointed in my Catholic family. Disappointed because they did not want to step on anyone's toes or cause hurt feelings, so they mostly kept their feelings quiet. My family member decided to induce her labor at 6 months. They decided not to do anything to help their daughter live after she was born. Thus, after a few hours their daughter died. I have struggled with their situation. I have struggled with the doctors whom advised them. I have struggled with my family's choice to stay quiet. What did I do? What did I say? I spoke to the "higher ups" in my family. I expressed my sadness and wondered why we weren't stopping them. But, ultimately it was the couples' choice. I kept quiet.
So folks, when do you step in? Is it possible to tell those you love your feelings? If I was given guidance at an earlier age I am sure I could have made better choices growing up. If someone would have spoken up. Ultimately, I made choices. Now, I feel that God is walking with me in the choices that I make.
When I speak about my faith or tell others about it, I am not coming from a "I am better than you or I know better" More like, this is what God has done for me and what I(and God) have done to GROW here.I want everyone to have what I have.Especially those I love. I am stumped. God's uses us all to help each other. If we ignore what God is asking us to do, how are we living in HIM? And Scene.
Monday, August 2, 2010
Yippie!
I have been MIA for a while. My sitter had to take some time off. So, I have been blessed to spend extra time with my kids. This time has been such a blessing. They are all at an age where it is a bit easier to go
places. We have done so many fun activities. We did our own little bible school and made Pope miters. The kids got to make their own giant sugar cookies.Compliments of http://www.holyheroes.com/ We went to the children's museum.Took a stroll downtown and went to a pretty cool popcorn shop and "Jesus store" I also took them to out to eat to "flower garden" Any guesses at the real name of the restaurant? The kidlets have enjoyed getting out. All have been healthy and it is so nice to have these times with them.
Later this week we plan to see Toy Story 3, make our own pizzas, and make/take cookies to our parish priests. Again, so happy. My business is slow. Stressed about that. But, as always, I cant keep worrying about it. I do know I have to step it up a bit. I am really trying hard to strike up that balance. I know what I have to do to achieve the career goals I have. But it comes at such a high cost. So, I pray.
Have you ever prayed the Chaplet of Divine Mercy? http://www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/mercy/dmmap.htm
There are many promises that come with the prayer and the novena. I had said several novena's months back for the health of my eldest son. When his fever came back, I just brushed it aside as his fevers are God's will. But, after the novenas, I was motivated more than ever to make a change in my boy's health.I decided (the Holy Spirit directed me) to take him to Mayo hold the lettuce. There we were given a remedy for his situation. Although, that is not how I--- I--- was looking for him to be healthy, it was how GOD planned to heal my boy. I was so blessed to see that work in my life and to notice it. I know that I have missed God's work in my life. I just try to be thankful everyday to him.
More exciting news, if you haven't gone to Clay Rosary Girl's website you are missing out. Beautiful work. I have ordered a few gifts for Christmas( never too early). I also ordered 3 rosaries for my kidlets. My plan is to say the rosary for each on of them every day on their own rosary. When they are older, I will give it to them to pray with. I am so excited. Take a look http://www.clayrosaries.com/. She also has a blog that is so neat.
Hope you have a blessed Monday. Peace!
places. We have done so many fun activities. We did our own little bible school and made Pope miters. The kids got to make their own giant sugar cookies.Compliments of http://www.holyheroes.com/ We went to the children's museum.Took a stroll downtown and went to a pretty cool popcorn shop and "Jesus store" I also took them to out to eat to "flower garden" Any guesses at the real name of the restaurant? The kidlets have enjoyed getting out. All have been healthy and it is so nice to have these times with them.
Later this week we plan to see Toy Story 3, make our own pizzas, and make/take cookies to our parish priests. Again, so happy. My business is slow. Stressed about that. But, as always, I cant keep worrying about it. I do know I have to step it up a bit. I am really trying hard to strike up that balance. I know what I have to do to achieve the career goals I have. But it comes at such a high cost. So, I pray.
Have you ever prayed the Chaplet of Divine Mercy? http://www.ewtn.com/Devotionals/mercy/dmmap.htm
There are many promises that come with the prayer and the novena. I had said several novena's months back for the health of my eldest son. When his fever came back, I just brushed it aside as his fevers are God's will. But, after the novenas, I was motivated more than ever to make a change in my boy's health.I decided (the Holy Spirit directed me) to take him to Mayo hold the lettuce. There we were given a remedy for his situation. Although, that is not how I--- I--- was looking for him to be healthy, it was how GOD planned to heal my boy. I was so blessed to see that work in my life and to notice it. I know that I have missed God's work in my life. I just try to be thankful everyday to him.
More exciting news, if you haven't gone to Clay Rosary Girl's website you are missing out. Beautiful work. I have ordered a few gifts for Christmas( never too early). I also ordered 3 rosaries for my kidlets. My plan is to say the rosary for each on of them every day on their own rosary. When they are older, I will give it to them to pray with. I am so excited. Take a look http://www.clayrosaries.com/. She also has a blog that is so neat.
Hope you have a blessed Monday. Peace!
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Maybe Cake Supervisor? not Boss
My twin babies decided that they needed to turn 3 yesterday. So sadly I let them. They have grown up so quickly! 2 birthdays means 2 cakes. I decided to make my baby boy a baseball hat cake. My baby girl a princess cake. ( THIS IS NOT A TUTORIAL) I just wanted to show you the mess :)
I did bake 2 dome shaped cakes in glass bowls. One turned out well...
And one pretty much fell apart..
Alas, no worries yet. I can sew with no needle, so i can surely conquer this. I also baked 2 8 inch round cakes as well. One would be the base of the princess dress. The other the bill of the baseball hat. I will jump to the finale of the baseball hat....
The princess was another story. After much trimming cussing and icing eating I was able to get a nice enough shape for the cake. However, because this dome didn't stay intact, it was a bit smaller than needed.
Wonder how I knew?
So after much anguish. I was able to kill 2 birds with one stone. I could fix my cake and relieve some of my frustration.
WARNING---- MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR BARBIE LOVERS----
BAM!!!!! TAKE THAT! I bet if you were real you would be like " OH I need to watch my figure so I wont have cake" So what eve. I made sure my daughter was out of the room on this part. BTW- Barbie legs are a lot harder to break now. I remember as a kid those trunks would come off if you tried to fit her in her little shoes. Now, I almost need pliers or cousin Vinny to "Go breaka her legs"
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Monday, July 19, 2010
Na Na Na Na Na Na Hey Hey Hey Good bye
Ok. I am really taking the organic scare seriously. So far, my family has switched to organic milk. All of my kidlets cereals are organic and gluten free. Mac and cheese is organic. Eggs, bread, meat,cookies (all of the food groups) are slowly but surely making it to organic. Now, i will tell you "natural is not the same as organic. But, I have kind of had to make due with some products because my town is not privy to cool kids Whole Foods or Trader Joes. In fact, I think I may have to www. some of my new needs. I have also started cooking with coconut oil instead of olive oil. Coconut is supposed to be much better for you. But what really freaked a sister out... check out ewg.com or cosmeticdatabase.com. WOWZA. My pediatrician has always told us to by Vanicream sunscreen (we do) but the baby shampoos and bath soap. SO scary.Johnson and Johnson... all linked to cancer??????? My husband thinks I am crazy. But, I want to do all I can to give my babies a healthy life. Hubby says : we didn't have organic and we are fine" But my response is .....fine for now.....
My fam and I were out taking a drive and we stopped an talked to some friends of my husband. I guess mine too. They are Catholic but don't take it seriously I guess. We were all discussing our day. The fam and I just had left church. They said something along the lines of "oh so boring, father so and so's homily's are all the same that's why we don't go" I didn't say a word. In an effort to be nice. But, I really think I should have. What I wanted to say...OHHHH...what I wanted to say! I was angry. Angry that they didn't show respect. Part of me thought, do I really want to be around people like this(when I really don't hafta)? Don't we need to be around people we support us and our family in the growth of our faith. I send my Big Boy to Catholic school so he can have that additional support( along with his family). I LOVE my faith . Granted, maybe I could have said something productive. Something that could have made them think and want to be closer to God. I want them to know that I go to mass to HEAR what father has to say. I go to be with God and my family. Mass is so beautiful. I just don't know what to do. It would be too judgy to not be friends with these people.They are really great people otherwise. But, I will not tolerate someone talking about my family's faith that way. Even if they are Catholic too. If everyone likes you, maybe you don't talk enough. Hum.
Now, please note, I am not being a "non catholic playa hata" I have plenty people in my life, whom I love, who don't share the same religious views as I. What I do not like, is people who talk ill about our family's faith, regardless of their own faith. There are all walks of life. Since I have a choice of who my friends are, do these people really fit into my life? Fit in to what I am growing to be. That is what I am trying to get across. Any suggestions?
My fam and I were out taking a drive and we stopped an talked to some friends of my husband. I guess mine too. They are Catholic but don't take it seriously I guess. We were all discussing our day. The fam and I just had left church. They said something along the lines of "oh so boring, father so and so's homily's are all the same that's why we don't go" I didn't say a word. In an effort to be nice. But, I really think I should have. What I wanted to say...OHHHH...what I wanted to say! I was angry. Angry that they didn't show respect. Part of me thought, do I really want to be around people like this(when I really don't hafta)? Don't we need to be around people we support us and our family in the growth of our faith. I send my Big Boy to Catholic school so he can have that additional support( along with his family). I LOVE my faith . Granted, maybe I could have said something productive. Something that could have made them think and want to be closer to God. I want them to know that I go to mass to HEAR what father has to say. I go to be with God and my family. Mass is so beautiful. I just don't know what to do. It would be too judgy to not be friends with these people.They are really great people otherwise. But, I will not tolerate someone talking about my family's faith that way. Even if they are Catholic too. If everyone likes you, maybe you don't talk enough. Hum.
Now, please note, I am not being a "non catholic playa hata" I have plenty people in my life, whom I love, who don't share the same religious views as I. What I do not like, is people who talk ill about our family's faith, regardless of their own faith. There are all walks of life. Since I have a choice of who my friends are, do these people really fit into my life? Fit in to what I am growing to be. That is what I am trying to get across. Any suggestions?
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Mini Post.
I strongly dislike relying on others to help me. Don't get me wrong, I have MANY very loved people in my life that help me tremendously. I have my assistant/bff Jet. This lovely maintains all of the details of running the office. She really is never wrong. I have my aunt who loves my kids for me during the day while I am at work. With that said, in general, if I need something done, I do it..... Jet is totally laughing right now... I am sure her inner voice is saying ( yeah right). In my home, if I need something hung. I hang it. If I need to get something done, I don't like waiting on others to do their step so I can cross it off of my to do list. I a m really just frustrated with the slowness of some of the processes here at the office..rather the main office. In general, it all boils down to doing your job and loving it, if you don't PLEASE PLEASE please....find another job.
I plan on attending adoration today. I hope to lay my frustration in God's hands. PEACE>
I plan on attending adoration today. I hope to lay my frustration in God's hands. PEACE>
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Smile!
PHOTO JUNKIE! I take way too many pictures of my sweet little kidlets. I also feel that pictures must be printed promptly. So I do. No 98,756 pics hanging out on my memory card. I just uploaded 600 pictures from the past month...I think a bit excessive. We did do a lot of fun activities this month. So maybe it will slow down! Because of this mantra I have adopted since my babies, I have tons of albums. I cant continue. I wont have room! So I have changed to photo books? They seem to be a slimmer way to print and view pics for the long term. I have been using shutterfly for this now. I have always been afraid that one of my babies will say" How come their aren't THAT many pictures of me?" My dad has 5 siblings and I hear him say that all of the time. It is time for us to invest in a new camera. Soooo, suggestions are greatly welcomed.
I am in awe with how great this month has been. The kids have been healthy( except for my big boys fever). My hubby and I have gotten so much accomplished around the house. I feel like I have been nesting for 6 months! I am not even pregnant! We have done so many fun activities with the kids. We have been swimming several times, museums, parks, fairs, and zoos. The Twins will turn 3 next week. My big boy will be 5 in a month. I can't believe how quickly it speeds by. Maybe that's why I take so many pictures. I am trying to hold on to every drop of sweetness.
Just feeling blessed today!
I am in awe with how great this month has been. The kids have been healthy( except for my big boys fever). My hubby and I have gotten so much accomplished around the house. I feel like I have been nesting for 6 months! I am not even pregnant! We have done so many fun activities with the kids. We have been swimming several times, museums, parks, fairs, and zoos. The Twins will turn 3 next week. My big boy will be 5 in a month. I can't believe how quickly it speeds by. Maybe that's why I take so many pictures. I am trying to hold on to every drop of sweetness.
Just feeling blessed today!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Perspective.
I keep telling myself...99% percent of what I am doing now will not matter in 99years. Point? What will matter is the relationship that I have with God. One of the commandments is (in a nut shell) " Do not worship false Gods" I received this today via a daily scripture reading ( these aren't my own words)
"We may not worship false gods like the people of Old Testament times but our false gods today include education, job status and success, power, an abundance of wealth in terms of our homes, cars, vacations, and the like, and even our own children. For instance, a child's Sunday sports schedule is more sacred than the Sunday Mass schedule. Because you are on vacation does not remove the obligation to celebrate Sunday Mass. "
GUILTY AS CHARGED!
Wow. I tell myself everyday nothing is more important than my relationship with God. But doing is another story. I am recommitting myself to daily mass and adoration. I am making a more structured prayer and faith life for my children. We never ever miss weekend mass. But that is the minimum. My intentions are always to go to daily mass. But so much (nothingness) gets in the way. Dah! I know better, the more time I give to God, the better my life will be.
In other news, this might be boring..... How to freeze your credit.... Yes, boring, but essential. You might see those companies out there like Life Lock that charge millions to protect your identity. I did it myself and my hubby for $30, with all 3 credit bureaus. It works. My mom is in the banking industry. She tried to run my credit. BAM! NA NA. Lock down. I have a code to remove the lock on it. But no one else can access my credit or steal me, without me knowing. Doing this also cut down on preapproved credit card offers. This is the link that will give you step by step instructions.... http://clarkhoward.com/topics/credit_freeze_states.html
Ok, enough being mom to the Internet abyss today. WORD>
"We may not worship false gods like the people of Old Testament times but our false gods today include education, job status and success, power, an abundance of wealth in terms of our homes, cars, vacations, and the like, and even our own children. For instance, a child's Sunday sports schedule is more sacred than the Sunday Mass schedule. Because you are on vacation does not remove the obligation to celebrate Sunday Mass. "
GUILTY AS CHARGED!
Wow. I tell myself everyday nothing is more important than my relationship with God. But doing is another story. I am recommitting myself to daily mass and adoration. I am making a more structured prayer and faith life for my children. We never ever miss weekend mass. But that is the minimum. My intentions are always to go to daily mass. But so much (nothingness) gets in the way. Dah! I know better, the more time I give to God, the better my life will be.
In other news, this might be boring..... How to freeze your credit.... Yes, boring, but essential. You might see those companies out there like Life Lock that charge millions to protect your identity. I did it myself and my hubby for $30, with all 3 credit bureaus. It works. My mom is in the banking industry. She tried to run my credit. BAM! NA NA. Lock down. I have a code to remove the lock on it. But no one else can access my credit or steal me, without me knowing. Doing this also cut down on preapproved credit card offers. This is the link that will give you step by step instructions.... http://clarkhoward.com/topics/credit_freeze_states.html
Ok, enough being mom to the Internet abyss today. WORD>
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Giddy.
Ah! My family and I had the greatest holiday weekend. I felt like we got so much accomplished. I took Friday off of work. The kids and I made the rock star awesome burlap canvas pictures. I saw the idea in a magazine selling the kits for $40 a piece. So I went to Slobby Lobby, bought the wood to make the frame, 2 yards of burlap, staple gun and paint for less than $30 total. It was super messy but lots of fun.
I am so pleased with the way this looks! Then, I had look at my old ratty puked up on rocking chair and decided to give it a razy new look( sorry no before picture)
THEN... I was so pumped about the rocking chair that I changed my dining room chairs!
I cant sew, I don't cut straight and I didn't measure. All in all, I spend under $50. To do the rocking chair, I just used no sew glue. Worked like a charm, my new best friend(SORRY AWAG). These chairs above were crazy easy. I am just so happy for the new look!
SO blessed for this outstanding weekend. The kidlets had a great time helping with all of the project I had.I have no talent or skill in this area....so just take the leap. It wont hurt too bad!PEACE!
Thursday, July 1, 2010
One time special offer?
Better than reality TV---- Home shopping TV. Ah yes ladies. I have not raised a credited card yet to buy the airbrush makeup that hides wrinkles.Nor have I thought to call in to talk to Liza Minnelli about her shiny satin side tie evening shirt. Alas, I loved watching Paula Abdul pawn her jewelry, when obviously she was so crazy drugged and looked like a disco ball wearing it.( See video, I am still laughing)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbXRVLrI9Dc
These celebrities who sell their stuff on QVC are so hop on a desk hilarious. This stuff is live. No editing. You see them at their "best"? So entertaining. I did want to buy the home Pilate's system. Where Mari swore you could just lay down and bounce your way to being skinny. Sorry girlfriend....my hubby tried to pull that one on me a long time ago. Not falling for it again. I am certain that I am destined to be a wrinkly old woman, credit card in hand, buying all of the above in the near future. I already know what my getup will look like.... Tons of purple eyeshadow, lots of bangle sparkly bracelets, wearing one of Drew Barrymore's side tie evening shirts. I will sure look hot when I go to mass!
My prediction of future QVC celebsellers--- Mos def- Drew Barrymore (she had me at lash blast), Oprah will create her OWN TV shopping, Beyonce', Lady Gaga all are pretty obvious. But take a snap at the products these people might be schlepping on TV in 30 years or so-- Kate Hudson ( a little black book for the cougar in us, bedazzled) Adam Lambert will sell natural make-up, Sean Combs new improved inverted chairs, my man Bret Bret cozy rocker slippers ( sign me up for 2 pair please, one in bandanna red), and of course Ryan Secreast will sell everything under the moon.When will he ever be OUT? Also, deserving mention, Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, and Anne Hathaway.
So my dirty little secret is out, I am entertained yet again by shopping. Just can't get enough online, in the stores, it has now invaded my home. So go on Suzanne Sommers. I got your back.
Who would you watch or buy from? Who do you think we will see as little old ladies or chaps peddling on home shopping?
Off to Adoration in a beat. Peace out.
These celebrities who sell their stuff on QVC are so hop on a desk hilarious. This stuff is live. No editing. You see them at their "best"? So entertaining. I did want to buy the home Pilate's system. Where Mari swore you could just lay down and bounce your way to being skinny. Sorry girlfriend....my hubby tried to pull that one on me a long time ago. Not falling for it again. I am certain that I am destined to be a wrinkly old woman, credit card in hand, buying all of the above in the near future. I already know what my getup will look like.... Tons of purple eyeshadow, lots of bangle sparkly bracelets, wearing one of Drew Barrymore's side tie evening shirts. I will sure look hot when I go to mass!
My prediction of future QVC celebsellers--- Mos def- Drew Barrymore (she had me at lash blast), Oprah will create her OWN TV shopping, Beyonce', Lady Gaga all are pretty obvious. But take a snap at the products these people might be schlepping on TV in 30 years or so-- Kate Hudson ( a little black book for the cougar in us, bedazzled) Adam Lambert will sell natural make-up, Sean Combs new improved inverted chairs, my man Bret Bret cozy rocker slippers ( sign me up for 2 pair please, one in bandanna red), and of course Ryan Secreast will sell everything under the moon.When will he ever be OUT? Also, deserving mention, Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton, and Anne Hathaway.
So my dirty little secret is out, I am entertained yet again by shopping. Just can't get enough online, in the stores, it has now invaded my home. So go on Suzanne Sommers. I got your back.
Who would you watch or buy from? Who do you think we will see as little old ladies or chaps peddling on home shopping?
Off to Adoration in a beat. Peace out.
Monday, June 28, 2010
GReat!
This past weekend my hubby and I took our little children for a little vaca. We took them a few hours away from home. They enjoyed a water park, zoo, and museum. The water park smelled like wet dog. I was so worried the whole time about them. I watched a show on Oprah about "Dry Drowning". Way to stress out us mom's even more. If you don't know... basically its when you playplayplay fun in water and some small bit of water gets into the lungs. A few hours later, death. AHHHHH! As if I don't have ENOUGH to worry about. The kids were sporting some very germy life jackets that were allowed by the park. But, it still didn't prevent their falls in the water. God was with us, kids a-o-k. We had a great time.
My husband and I don't leave home often. We were worried about finding a Catholic Church in the area we were visiting for mass. I checked out masstimes.org and had an idea of local mass times. The greatness of our church, its the same mass. Same traditions. Even though different location, we had the feeling that we were at our home church. The beauty-- no matter what location or space in time---now or 1000 years from now....The Catholic mass will be the same. That's how Jesus set it up.
My children seemed to need to say "Hello Jesus" "Goodbye Jesus" so so so LOUD. We definitely made our presence known.They did a great job.
So incredibly sleepy. Off to get another watervodka. I miss my kids.Really miss them. Have to work though. WORD.
My husband and I don't leave home often. We were worried about finding a Catholic Church in the area we were visiting for mass. I checked out masstimes.org and had an idea of local mass times. The greatness of our church, its the same mass. Same traditions. Even though different location, we had the feeling that we were at our home church. The beauty-- no matter what location or space in time---now or 1000 years from now....The Catholic mass will be the same. That's how Jesus set it up.
My children seemed to need to say "Hello Jesus" "Goodbye Jesus" so so so LOUD. We definitely made our presence known.They did a great job.
So incredibly sleepy. Off to get another water
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Playa Hate-a'
The rules of this award are as follows:
1. Thank the person who nominated you for this award.
2. Copy the award & place it on your blog.
3. Link to the person who nominated you for this award.
4. Share 10 things about yourself.
5. Nominate 10 of your favorite bloggers for the award.
6. Post links to the blogs you nominate.
A big thanks to AWAG at Our Happy Married life for flipping this award to me. Awag has been my RLF since college. Its probably best that I was dating my husband when AWAG and I met. Otherwise, I cant imagine what adventures we would have encountered. We did a lot just in the small amount of time we actually got to spend together. You are a great friend. Love you lots.
Herr it....Here it goes.
1. I am terrified of divorce. My mom is on her 3rd marriage. I have this theory that couples get divorce at10 years. My husband and I have been married 7. I don't believe in divorce. But, I still fear. I just continue to pray to God for increased faith in HIM. That's what it boils down to folks!
2. Love making lists. I must be prepared. Although my moms didn't love me enough to let me be a girl scout. She would say..."Ugh, you'd have to be away from home and camp". I was not a camp type girl. Bugs and bears are not my thing. Peeing in random places...yes mos' def.
3. I love to knit. I am terrible. One of my clients taught me last year. I do it for me. I make "anti theft " scarves. Cause taint nobody stealin' those. They are beauty challenged.
4. I am constantly thinking of different businesses or products to develop. Hurts my brain.
5. Last year at 29, I was told I had a stroke.(Hence learning to knit..if I was old enough to have a stroke I thought I should start knitting too) Sorry Jet and Awag, you've heard this mess. After 5 months of thinking I would die any moment, I was all clear. I have a blood disorder that is being monitored and few other hiccups. No big shakes. So now you really know why I could rock a Bret.
6. I love listening to Catholic Cd's or radio. I am listening to http://www.relevantradio.com/ right now. LOVE IT. I also subscibe to the cd of the month club. Changed my life. I love my faith. Thrilled that I am Catholic. Need to be a better witness... not perfect. I know it. Still working on it.
7. I do not have a facebook, my space, twitter. UGH. I didn't talk to many people in high school so why now?
8. I don't drink pop, soda, fizzy lifting drinks. Basically water and booze(on occasion :)) Love Piesporter, Moscat, Riesling wine.
9. Led Zeppelin is my most favorite band eva. I love the guitar. I can play guitar a little. My dad can sure rock out though. He taught himself.
10. I want to have at least 2 more kids. I hope God will bless us.
Ok.... nominations.. I don't know any other bloggers who I am not scared to give this to. All of my other bloggy friends have already splat it.
Don't hold the Mayo!
Mayo was great. My boy was a trooper. God was with us the whole way.
The drive was fun. We go lost so often.In fact, we could have started our own "lost" show. Everywhere we stopped I was sure we were a blink away from getting mugged. But again, God watched over us. We stopped several places on our journey. I had the best, I mean BEST food eva in Madison, Wi. at the Old Fashioned. It was rockin and organic. I am so jelly of the Madison , Wi vibe. The exact environment I would like to raise my children. BTW..why don't I have a Trader Joes where I live. I will totally be a close to perfect( cough hack) mother if I could shop more often at my lovey lovey Trader Joes. Everything organic-y and cool. I am sad just thinking about how much I missBret Michael's Trader Joes.
Shicka loo, we also stopped in Chi town for a little Mag-Mile action. We (my moms, son, myself) decided to get a bra fitting at My Intimacy. This is that rockin bra fit shop that my girl Oprah featured on her show. So moms and I went for a fitting. My son was in the room with me. Threw a major fit... BECAUSE some chick does a "holistic" fitting..... OH yeah...close to ...lets feel you up to see what size you are.!!!!! So, my son was mad this lady was touching my "privates". But, she didn't leave. They put the bra's on, nip and tuck. Then proceed to tell you how cute you look. How vulnerable I felt all neked. Agree?. Now, I had have a stack of cute $90-$200 priced bras to choose from. Oh yea...they DON'T offer a 0% financing. Because a girl has got to finance to by these bad boys.
All in all, it was fun. I did get a few cute bras. My moms was thrilled. Her monkey jumpers need bigger cages then mine. So, her bras were $200+ a piece. She was so happy. Her clothes DID look so much different. No joke... she did look skinnier.
AWAG- Thanks for the award. I appreciate it. I will hang my hat on it tomorrow.
Now, I hope to get my business and life back on track. With answers under my belt about my baby. I can think clearer on what needs to be done. I keep praying that God will lead the way! Peace out.
The drive was fun. We go lost so often.In fact, we could have started our own "lost" show. Everywhere we stopped I was sure we were a blink away from getting mugged. But again, God watched over us. We stopped several places on our journey. I had the best, I mean BEST food eva in Madison, Wi. at the Old Fashioned. It was rockin and organic. I am so jelly of the Madison , Wi vibe. The exact environment I would like to raise my children. BTW..why don't I have a Trader Joes where I live. I will totally be a close to perfect( cough hack) mother if I could shop more often at my lovey lovey Trader Joes. Everything organic-y and cool. I am sad just thinking about how much I miss
Shicka loo, we also stopped in Chi town for a little Mag-Mile action. We (my moms, son, myself) decided to get a bra fitting at My Intimacy. This is that rockin bra fit shop that my girl Oprah featured on her show. So moms and I went for a fitting. My son was in the room with me. Threw a major fit... BECAUSE some chick does a "holistic" fitting..... OH yeah...close to ...lets feel you up to see what size you are.!!!!! So, my son was mad this lady was touching my "privates". But, she didn't leave. They put the bra's on, nip and tuck. Then proceed to tell you how cute you look. How vulnerable I felt all neked. Agree?. Now, I had have a stack of cute $90-$200 priced bras to choose from. Oh yea...they DON'T offer a 0% financing. Because a girl has got to finance to by these bad boys.
All in all, it was fun. I did get a few cute bras. My moms was thrilled. Her monkey jumpers need bigger cages then mine. So, her bras were $200+ a piece. She was so happy. Her clothes DID look so much different. No joke... she did look skinnier.
AWAG- Thanks for the award. I appreciate it. I will hang my hat on it tomorrow.
Now, I hope to get my business and life back on track. With answers under my belt about my baby. I can think clearer on what needs to be done. I keep praying that God will lead the way! Peace out.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Dear Person who hates their job.
Do your job! Is it that awful that I am asking you to send me medical records. Is it unimaginable that I might want them for our trip to Mayo. What is wrong in your life today that its just like ridiculous green elephants to ask for something SO easy. Shum-on!
If you hate your job. Do something else. If you cant attempt to do it. QUIT! You are not doing anyone any favors mulling around like you are dying just being there. Work is work. There are jobs that people do love. How can you be so awful to other humans?
We are all dealing with something. (Seems like my theme) I always keep that in mind when I am not treated the way I would treat someone else. However, if you are in a customer service job. You are supposed to at least help. Forget the fact that you might hate your job, I AM A HUMAN BEING! I will always, even in anger, treat others with respect.
I am not even going to mention that said job hater is lucky to even have a job. Rant rant rant. The end.
If you hate your job. Do something else. If you cant attempt to do it. QUIT! You are not doing anyone any favors mulling around like you are dying just being there. Work is work. There are jobs that people do love. How can you be so awful to other humans?
We are all dealing with something. (Seems like my theme) I always keep that in mind when I am not treated the way I would treat someone else. However, if you are in a customer service job. You are supposed to at least help. Forget the fact that you might hate your job, I AM A HUMAN BEING! I will always, even in anger, treat others with respect.
I am not even going to mention that said job hater is lucky to even have a job. Rant rant rant. The end.
Monday, June 7, 2010
Sandra Bullock
When it rains it pours....Really? Yes, we all have situations we would rather not deal with. I am heartbroken when I see a friend that is hurting, or even worse my babies. The last year, has been a Noah's Ark year. But guess what. I have been closer to God more than ever. I have sobbed thinking" Does God make my son sick, so I will be closer to him?" " Is God "punishing" him so I will grow in my faith" A bit selfish to think that I am that important to God that he would have to punish my son with an illness for me. But, maybe that was the only way I would listen. God doesn't punish. I have to see the good in the trials my son is going through. The only rationalization I can make is that it's happening so I will be stronger in my faith.
It could be worse? Yes it could!!!!! I know this. I thank God everyday that its not. That we somewhat have an idea of what might be happening. My son could have something very terrible ( i don't want to even type it) But, when our family goes through his illness, its hard to see WORSE. So if someone says to you "It could be worse" Give them credit for what they are going through NOW. We don't want it to get worse. God's gives us warnings. Wake up calls. To be in his light. So if it does get worse. He will walk it with us.
On to superficial stuff... I grew up in a town of about 2400. This past weekend was a little fair for the town. Seems like if you were conceived in said town, you have to come back to the fair. So, my hubby, and 3 little ones oblige. The kids LOVED the rides ( only safe ones, i wouldn't let them ride the roller coaster HAVE YOU SEEN THOSE KIDS NECKS WHIP IN THOSE BAD BOYS) Anyway, my three talented children were skilled enough to win 5 goldfish. Unfortunately, we are down to three. My baby girl says " Wha Waaaaaa" When she sees one dead.
Are you still friends with people you knew in high school? My husband and I graduated from the same school. I never talk to any one anymore. But he greets them like they are his long lost friends. I saw so many of my closest friends from high school...but we didn't even acknowledge each other. I didn't feel the need to because, frankly they were crappy friends. Very fake. I swear I wasn't. I don't have much of a poker face.
I know my BFF AWAG totally keeps all of her friends. But maybe she can take more crap than I can. I just couldn't. It is hands down the right thing to do...be nice to others/ see God in them. But man oh man. It pretty hard to see God in some of those girls who NEVA had my back. Not that I am reliving high school :)
Maybe it's different for boys.I will chalk it up to that.
Work is sucking wind. Kind of hard to do anything with the impending trip to Mayo for my Big Boy next week. God has plans... God has plans.. I will keep telling myself this :) PEACE.
It could be worse? Yes it could!!!!! I know this. I thank God everyday that its not. That we somewhat have an idea of what might be happening. My son could have something very terrible ( i don't want to even type it) But, when our family goes through his illness, its hard to see WORSE. So if someone says to you "It could be worse" Give them credit for what they are going through NOW. We don't want it to get worse. God's gives us warnings. Wake up calls. To be in his light. So if it does get worse. He will walk it with us.
On to superficial stuff... I grew up in a town of about 2400. This past weekend was a little fair for the town. Seems like if you were conceived in said town, you have to come back to the fair. So, my hubby, and 3 little ones oblige. The kids LOVED the rides ( only safe ones, i wouldn't let them ride the roller coaster HAVE YOU SEEN THOSE KIDS NECKS WHIP IN THOSE BAD BOYS) Anyway, my three talented children were skilled enough to win 5 goldfish. Unfortunately, we are down to three. My baby girl says " Wha Waaaaaa" When she sees one dead.
Are you still friends with people you knew in high school? My husband and I graduated from the same school. I never talk to any one anymore. But he greets them like they are his long lost friends. I saw so many of my closest friends from high school...but we didn't even acknowledge each other. I didn't feel the need to because, frankly they were crappy friends. Very fake. I swear I wasn't. I don't have much of a poker face.
I know my BFF AWAG totally keeps all of her friends. But maybe she can take more crap than I can. I just couldn't. It is hands down the right thing to do...be nice to others/ see God in them. But man oh man. It pretty hard to see God in some of those girls who NEVA had my back. Not that I am reliving high school :)
Maybe it's different for boys.I will chalk it up to that.
Work is sucking wind. Kind of hard to do anything with the impending trip to Mayo for my Big Boy next week. God has plans... God has plans.. I will keep telling myself this :) PEACE.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Worth it?
I don't care. I'm gonna talk about Bret. VH1 aired the first episode of his new show. I will definitely be tuning in. Because its great to watch tv that you don't have to think about.
It was a pretty nice Memorial Day weekend. AWAG- I got permission to go an hour away to a spa with my moms and sister. We had a great time.(only gone for 25 1/2 hours) Drank too many coronas and wine(not together). But can you believe it, my MOM was hit on the entire night. We got drinks bought for us the WHOLE night. Because of my MOMS. WHAT? I was busy asking any guy who looked at my sis " Are you Catholic?" "Wanna marry my sister?" I am so sure that was annoying... but fruitful. She met (i believe) a nice boy whom she has been texting all weekend. HOLLA. My sister will graduate from Chiropractor school in a few months. So proud of her. We had a great time. Laughed a whole bunch. Played Wii. Crazy fun had by all. A much needed break. Cant wait for the next one in 6 years.
Back to work. Go do something :)
It was a pretty nice Memorial Day weekend. AWAG- I got permission to go an hour away to a spa with my moms and sister. We had a great time.(only gone for 25 1/2 hours) Drank too many coronas and wine(not together). But can you believe it, my MOM was hit on the entire night. We got drinks bought for us the WHOLE night. Because of my MOMS. WHAT? I was busy asking any guy who looked at my sis " Are you Catholic?" "Wanna marry my sister?" I am so sure that was annoying... but fruitful. She met (i believe) a nice boy whom she has been texting all weekend. HOLLA. My sister will graduate from Chiropractor school in a few months. So proud of her. We had a great time. Laughed a whole bunch. Played Wii. Crazy fun had by all. A much needed break. Cant wait for the next one in 6 years.
Back to work. Go do something :)
Thursday, May 27, 2010
American Idol
First of all, I am a huge dork. Now that's out of the way.... American Idol. I have not watched it in a while, but my kids and I have tried to watch it when we remember. The finale last night was great (enough) Christina Auglieraboliiveas( I don't know how to spell her name and I am too tired to Bing it) was below average. But, she really didn't look like she was trying. Whatev. BRETT! BRETT! He was so fragile looking. It was so cute seeing him up there. But, dude, really rest for a beat. Smoke stackin' Janet Jackson WHAT? She looked ( insert something to encompass scary, cool, solid, rich, confident). All in all entertaining. Oh, I forgot the Dane Cook part....whom I think I put before Bretydhjudmfskins. Dane was singing, then some goofybanana tool the mic and started talking about himself. Crazy fun. Love live TV.
Anyhoo. Please comment on the extent of my dork-ness. Do you think it's genetic? What are the chances of my kids getting it too?
WARNING- One small baby rant to follow-
One final thought. Are you late all of the time? Why? Do you not respect the person you are visiting or helping? Is their time not as important as yours? Do you make meetings with people and don't show up? COME ON! In general, do what is expected of you. Show up to life. If you will be late, call. If you aren't going to show up call. Oh, while I'm at it...Don't wear mesh shirts AT ALL. No excuse for that mess.
I will be off until Tuesday. Have a very SAFE holiday. I mean SAFE. Take care. Go to Church. Wa Wha WAA.
Anyhoo. Please comment on the extent of my dork-ness. Do you think it's genetic? What are the chances of my kids getting it too?
WARNING- One small baby rant to follow-
One final thought. Are you late all of the time? Why? Do you not respect the person you are visiting or helping? Is their time not as important as yours? Do you make meetings with people and don't show up? COME ON! In general, do what is expected of you. Show up to life. If you will be late, call. If you aren't going to show up call. Oh, while I'm at it...Don't wear mesh shirts AT ALL. No excuse for that mess.
I will be off until Tuesday. Have a very SAFE holiday. I mean SAFE. Take care. Go to Church. Wa Wha WAA.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Whoop there it is....
First I want to thank God, my family and Exgf!!!! http://confessionsofanexgirlfriend.wordpress.com/ How sweet to pass this on!
Along with the award comes with a Q&A session…
What do you do when you’re bored? Read magazines, blogs, EAT!
Are you an Autumn or a Spring?
Autumn. You cant beat the crisp evening air. The smell of leaves burning( if you don't have a city ordinance)
Quick! You’re stuck at an airport for hours, and the only options are crossword puzzles, or an old novel nobody’s ever heard of. Which do you pick?
Crosswords make me cry. HATE THEM> YES HATE! Totally the novel.
Jane Austen or Emily Bronte?
Couldn't tell ya! How about Oprah?
Do you feel prepared for the five other questions coming your way?
Fo Sho Maximo
Who’s your hero?
Hero... hum... Don't think I'm a kiss up... But I really look up to the Blessed Mother Mary. I take comfort in knowing that she was a mother just like me. Although her son was perfect in every way. But...I think my kids are too. Bonus round...Mother Teresa... she started her work at 40! 40! So many things I want to accomplish. Just knowing that Mother Teresa did so much and started at 40 gives me inspiration.
Favorite word?
Fo shizzle.
Are you one of those “checklist” people, or are you a “wing it and hope everything goes well” sort of person?
Who in their right mind DOESN'T have a checklist? Are they nuts? I have a checklist BOOK!
What phrase has stuck with you in your life?
" For I know the plans I have in mind for you, God declares, plans for peace, not disaster, to give you future and hope.... When you call to me and come and pray to me I will LISTEN to you"
If you were to choose between coffee and tea . . . which would you go with?
I love me some green tea! Yummo
4 Bloggers who deserve this award are:
Well, i read other blogs that don't like me ...besides the way sweet Exgf and OHML who have already gotten the award! Back at yah!
That was fun! Thanks so much. My twins are sick now too. Been too tired to blog lately. We are hoping to move forward with obtaining more input on my BigBoy's fevers. Looks like a trip to Mayo Clinic soon. I will keep you posted. ROCK IT!
Along with the award comes with a Q&A session…
What do you do when you’re bored? Read magazines, blogs, EAT!
Are you an Autumn or a Spring?
Autumn. You cant beat the crisp evening air. The smell of leaves burning( if you don't have a city ordinance)
Quick! You’re stuck at an airport for hours, and the only options are crossword puzzles, or an old novel nobody’s ever heard of. Which do you pick?
Crosswords make me cry. HATE THEM> YES HATE! Totally the novel.
Jane Austen or Emily Bronte?
Couldn't tell ya! How about Oprah?
Do you feel prepared for the five other questions coming your way?
Fo Sho Maximo
Who’s your hero?
Hero... hum... Don't think I'm a kiss up... But I really look up to the Blessed Mother Mary. I take comfort in knowing that she was a mother just like me. Although her son was perfect in every way. But...I think my kids are too. Bonus round...Mother Teresa... she started her work at 40! 40! So many things I want to accomplish. Just knowing that Mother Teresa did so much and started at 40 gives me inspiration.
Favorite word?
Fo shizzle.
Are you one of those “checklist” people, or are you a “wing it and hope everything goes well” sort of person?
Who in their right mind DOESN'T have a checklist? Are they nuts? I have a checklist BOOK!
What phrase has stuck with you in your life?
" For I know the plans I have in mind for you, God declares, plans for peace, not disaster, to give you future and hope.... When you call to me and come and pray to me I will LISTEN to you"
If you were to choose between coffee and tea . . . which would you go with?
I love me some green tea! Yummo
4 Bloggers who deserve this award are:
Well, i read other blogs that don't like me ...besides the way sweet Exgf and OHML who have already gotten the award! Back at yah!
That was fun! Thanks so much. My twins are sick now too. Been too tired to blog lately. We are hoping to move forward with obtaining more input on my BigBoy's fevers. Looks like a trip to Mayo Clinic soon. I will keep you posted. ROCK IT!
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Peace.
Today is the day that I usually go to adoration. I haven't made it there yet, not sure I will be able to go. God knows that I need to feel his presence right now. My Big Boy got his fever again this week. I will talk about this sometime but don't feel like it now. I have always believed that God gives us trials in life so we can become closer to him. For those of you who know about my past year, it is true. I have become enriched by my Catholic faith and become stronger in it everyday. I feel at peace knowing that I have been learning and living more and more in the depth of my faith everyday.
My children, so sweet, make sure to say prayers all of the time no matter what we are doing. Listening to 2 year olds pray is precious. I see God in them all of the time. Helps me be more patient. I am so blessed. I am blessed to be Catholic. I feel that I am slowly growing into the woman, wife and mother that God's is SHOUTING for me to be.
I am trying to be a better listener.
My children, so sweet, make sure to say prayers all of the time no matter what we are doing. Listening to 2 year olds pray is precious. I see God in them all of the time. Helps me be more patient. I am so blessed. I am blessed to be Catholic. I feel that I am slowly growing into the woman, wife and mother that God's is SHOUTING for me to be.
I am trying to be a better listener.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
GENERIC Madonna
Although I am sick of talking about Brettypouynsgdhinkins, he will be on my BFF Oprah's show tomorrow. Hope I remember to DVR that bad boy.
In other news, Christina Aguilera is trying so hard to be the best GENERIC Madonna. Come on! Why? Why cant she just be original for once. Her new music video is just plan ridiculous. Accomplishes nothing but making her look stupid. TRY TO BE CREATIVE. I was watching Good Morning Amercia ( this morning) was tired watching the boring election gook. So, switched to the Today show... WTF... The same boring election jazz on that show too. I realize they are trying to bring the most updated national news. But come on!I can't take all of the knock offs. Why can't they be original, at least change the order..
Also watched True Life on MTV. It was about newlywed couples who didn't live together before marriage. OMG! You should have heard the intro. Like it was a terrible thing that they didn't have the test run. Unreal. It was crazy funny when one bride showed up to her new home. She hadn't even seen where her long distance boyfriend lived. The house was bunk. Widow shades all crooked and broken... the chick was like "Oh , really, I...thought you said you cleaned." Then she found out the dude had debt too. WHO DOESN'T TALK ABOUT THIS BEFORE THEY GET MARRIED? How can you not know your future man love is in debt up to his eye lashes? I just don't get it. The other couple hadn't even kissed until they were married. I kissed TONS of frogs before I got hitched(dah! I did go to college, I did just say kiss though, no other naugghty naughty). Its a bit of a right of passage. The chick in this union even had to ask if she could get a part time job. The husband/ruler said " Will I have to help more around the house, well its only part time you can keep up with the housework too." AH! The whole episode made me dumber. It was so awkward. Now I have wasted my life and blog on it.
Onward Organic, switched to organic 2% milk. Good. Wally world has a GENERIC kind that's not much more than the death milk. I've been really looking for local farmers to buy food from. But, since I am not near a big city..... not much to choose from. But maybe you could benefit from this link- localharvest.org. I wll keep you updated on food and tidbits.Maybe you can make this journey with me. My husband of love is kind of letting me do it so that's a good start.
Anyhoo...off to start the day. Lots of everything you want today.....Word.
In other news, Christina Aguilera is trying so hard to be the best GENERIC Madonna. Come on! Why? Why cant she just be original for once. Her new music video is just plan ridiculous. Accomplishes nothing but making her look stupid. TRY TO BE CREATIVE. I was watching Good Morning Amercia ( this morning) was tired watching the boring election gook. So, switched to the Today show... WTF... The same boring election jazz on that show too. I realize they are trying to bring the most updated national news. But come on!I can't take all of the knock offs. Why can't they be original, at least change the order..
Also watched True Life on MTV. It was about newlywed couples who didn't live together before marriage. OMG! You should have heard the intro. Like it was a terrible thing that they didn't have the test run. Unreal. It was crazy funny when one bride showed up to her new home. She hadn't even seen where her long distance boyfriend lived. The house was bunk. Widow shades all crooked and broken... the chick was like "Oh , really, I...thought you said you cleaned." Then she found out the dude had debt too. WHO DOESN'T TALK ABOUT THIS BEFORE THEY GET MARRIED? How can you not know your future man love is in debt up to his eye lashes? I just don't get it. The other couple hadn't even kissed until they were married. I kissed TONS of frogs before I got hitched(dah! I did go to college, I did just say kiss though, no other naugghty naughty). Its a bit of a right of passage. The chick in this union even had to ask if she could get a part time job. The husband/ruler said " Will I have to help more around the house, well its only part time you can keep up with the housework too." AH! The whole episode made me dumber. It was so awkward. Now I have wasted my life and blog on it.
Onward Organic, switched to organic 2% milk. Good. Wally world has a GENERIC kind that's not much more than the death milk. I've been really looking for local farmers to buy food from. But, since I am not near a big city..... not much to choose from. But maybe you could benefit from this link- localharvest.org. I wll keep you updated on food and tidbits.Maybe you can make this journey with me. My husband of love is kind of letting me do it so that's a good start.
Anyhoo...off to start the day. Lots of everything you want today.....Word.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Over it.
Yesterday, I went to the all-American mother's store Wally World. Bought shampoo that came with a sample of the new Elnite hairspray. No wonder they are giving it away for free. It is awful. Doesn't hold anything up. Smells like my grandma's hairspray (kisses) NOT WORTH $14. I will stick with my lovely smelling, bump keep upper, Pureology hairspray. I did have to take a small loan out to buy it though. What ev. Its only money.gag.
I have decided with out a doubt, to make my way over to the organic food life. Maybe I am a bad mom because I haven't already done so. Most of the hesitation is not knowing enough about what you are buying and should buy. I hate the chemicals in our food today. I HATE feeding that crud to my precious babies. So, slowly but Aunt Shirley, I will get there. I am hoping this will change our family's health.
Not much to report. My customers don't even show up for appointments to tell me disgusting stories like you Awag. I love those that I stay late for and they dont show. Real nice.
I don't understand over spenders. I save. I save like a baseball player on third.But I spend too. I just cant get over the big screens, big cars, big everythings that people have. It all results in BIG debt and little retirements. Get your elephants in a row. Do what you are supposed to do. Over it. Word.
I have decided with out a doubt, to make my way over to the organic food life. Maybe I am a bad mom because I haven't already done so. Most of the hesitation is not knowing enough about what you are buying and should buy. I hate the chemicals in our food today. I HATE feeding that crud to my precious babies. So, slowly but Aunt Shirley, I will get there. I am hoping this will change our family's health.
Not much to report. My customers don't even show up for appointments to tell me disgusting stories like you Awag. I love those that I stay late for and they dont show. Real nice.
I don't understand over spenders. I save. I save like a baseball player on third.But I spend too. I just cant get over the big screens, big cars, big everythings that people have. It all results in BIG debt and little retirements. Get your elephants in a row. Do what you are supposed to do. Over it. Word.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Whatever it is I think I see...Becomes a Tootsie Roll to me!
My tummy hurts. Could it possibly be the 904+ Tootsie rolls I just ate? I normally don't have bulk quantity's hanging around. But today my Big Boy son and I had to get ready for a school party tomorrow. So now I must eat all of the remaining tootsie rolls before someone else does!
This morning my Big Boy and I went to daily mass. He loves to get out of the house just he and I. He did everything the priest did during mass. I always try to point out the Eucharist to my kids. I make sure they know "Jesus is in the house!" Today, I asked my BigBoy " Did you feel Jesus in your heart?" He said "No, I didn't, but I did feel that big bump" At least he felt something :)
Talk about that super kid that survived the plane crash out of 103 people. Check the odds on that one. I cant imagine what that 10 year old's life will be like. Not only surviving the crash, more than likely lost family members, but being the only survivor. My whole life would be ......Why did I survive? I'd better do something special? I am just amazed by this story and the life a head of this little one.
I will be giving a speech today about being a "superwomen" Women who work and have kids. The theme is "you can have it all" I really don't believe it. I do feel I have the best job a mother can have. But, I am constantly feeling guilt for not being with my kids. I am always stressed about the success of my business. Stressed about not being with my kids.Stressed about people who drop their stress off to me to dry clean. Ugh! My kids are already 2, 2 and 4. Its so speed of light fast. Advice- Give yourself a darn break. You are doing your best. Be with your babies as much as you can. Know that you are working to provide college and lots of toys. BTW- AWAG- I am the worstest grammor people ever. I hates the spelling and was no newspaper edittoring lover. Sorry to you. Hope you like the blog. Go to church.
This morning my Big Boy and I went to daily mass. He loves to get out of the house just he and I. He did everything the priest did during mass. I always try to point out the Eucharist to my kids. I make sure they know "Jesus is in the house!" Today, I asked my BigBoy " Did you feel Jesus in your heart?" He said "No, I didn't, but I did feel that big bump" At least he felt something :)
Talk about that super kid that survived the plane crash out of 103 people. Check the odds on that one. I cant imagine what that 10 year old's life will be like. Not only surviving the crash, more than likely lost family members, but being the only survivor. My whole life would be ......Why did I survive? I'd better do something special? I am just amazed by this story and the life a head of this little one.
I will be giving a speech today about being a "superwomen" Women who work and have kids. The theme is "you can have it all" I really don't believe it. I do feel I have the best job a mother can have. But, I am constantly feeling guilt for not being with my kids. I am always stressed about the success of my business. Stressed about not being with my kids.Stressed about people who drop their stress off to me to dry clean. Ugh! My kids are already 2, 2 and 4. Its so speed of light fast. Advice- Give yourself a darn break. You are doing your best. Be with your babies as much as you can. Know that you are working to provide college and lots of toys. BTW- AWAG- I am the worstest grammor people ever. I hates the spelling and was no newspaper edittoring lover. Sorry to you. Hope you like the blog. Go to church.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
I give props to those who deserve it...Believe me'all he's worth it...
Thank you to my parents who baptized me Catholic
Thank you to whatever horrible event that blessed me with the longing to be closer to God.
Thank you to God for my perfect kids
Thank you to those who actually try to help me when I ask for help
Thank you for clients who don't yell and rant when I ask them to come in for ONE MORE SIGNATURE
Thank you for other coworkers who go out of thie way to help ME write business.
Thank you to my assistant who listens to all of my drama and ramblings and acts enthused about it.
Thank you to my bff awag for making me feel like I know what I am doing.
Thank you for people who are being their imperfect selves
Thank you for those I can count on no matter what
Thank you for aluminum foil.
Thank you for Velveeta cheese
Thank you for ice cream cone cup cakes
Thank you for un birthdays
Thank you for digital cameras
Thank you for mothers who choose adoption instead of abortion.
Thank you for my business even though I am stressing
Thank you for kind words when I need them
Thank you for prayers
Thank you for Adoration
Thank you for the Rosary
Thank you for cool yarn...even though I stink at knitting
Thank you for making it through day 6 of the shred
Thank you ( a smidgen not much) for Bret Micheals even though he's GETTING MARRIED!
Thank you for foxy faux lashes
Thank you for making mini vans not soo dorky since I have to rock it.
Today, this is what I have been thinking about and wondering how my life would be different if I didn't have these "things" to be thankful for. Tell me your today's thank yous......Blog about it, throw a link down.
Thank you to whatever horrible event that blessed me with the longing to be closer to God.
Thank you to God for my perfect kids
Thank you to those who actually try to help me when I ask for help
Thank you for clients who don't yell and rant when I ask them to come in for ONE MORE SIGNATURE
Thank you for other coworkers who go out of thie way to help ME write business.
Thank you to my assistant who listens to all of my drama and ramblings and acts enthused about it.
Thank you to my bff awag for making me feel like I know what I am doing.
Thank you for people who are being their imperfect selves
Thank you for those I can count on no matter what
Thank you for aluminum foil.
Thank you for Velveeta cheese
Thank you for ice cream cone cup cakes
Thank you for un birthdays
Thank you for digital cameras
Thank you for mothers who choose adoption instead of abortion.
Thank you for my business even though I am stressing
Thank you for kind words when I need them
Thank you for prayers
Thank you for Adoration
Thank you for the Rosary
Thank you for cool yarn...even though I stink at knitting
Thank you for making it through day 6 of the shred
Thank you ( a smidgen not much) for Bret Micheals even though he's GETTING MARRIED!
Thank you for foxy faux lashes
Thank you for making mini vans not soo dorky since I have to rock it.
Today, this is what I have been thinking about and wondering how my life would be different if I didn't have these "things" to be thankful for. Tell me your today's thank yous......Blog about it, throw a link down.
Monday, May 10, 2010
This post is just not into me....
As Mother's Day approached, I made sure to coach my 4 year old son on what to buy mommy.
" Sweetheart, all mommy wants is a ring with LOTS of diamonds"
His response " Is 10 a lot?"
"Yes, honey 10 diamonds is perfect".
My baby boy..." Well, mama, if I cant find that one I will give you something like it"
Tons of kisses later he and his father left to find me my perfect gift. After opening all of the boxes on the display and carefully counting all of the "diamonds" My baby boy brought home the most lovely ring. He was certain that I would like it because it is in a shape of an animal and has LOTS of diamonds.
Also, I just wanted to give you a heads up on the best EVA nail polish.
Well worth the 5+ dollars spent! 
Sally Hansen Complete Salon Manicure
This nail polish lives up to all of expectations. I feel skinny just wearing it. Stop at Wally world, buy and shout to a sista if you love it.
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